Me and my boyfriend been 2getha since 2 days before mothers day and he say's that he think he fell in love with me!!! The thing is,I'm not in love with him. I'm in love with my BEST friend(a guy). we've been talkink relationship wise since 1-16-06. We feel the same about each other. what should I do??
2006-08-10 07:31:54 · 15 answers · asked by Mickey Tink(er Bell) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your boyfriend that you are not quite to "love's" standards and if he can not accept that it means that he doesn't love you. If he can not respect your choices in life he can not be the love of your life. Think of it if he can't respect you for that then you can get rid of him a go to your best friend. Don't tell your boyfriend that you love your best friend otherwise he might get aggressive and that is not cool. He might also try to tell your best friend that you don't care for him when you really do. Just listen to what your heart has to say.
2006-08-10 07:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down with your boyfriend and tell him how you really feel because the longer you hold on the longer it will hurt you. And when you talk to him you should get everything out and and tell him that he is a great person and that this relationship is not working out, and tell him that you are sorry for this and also tell him that your sure he would be a great boyfriend to someone else and tell him since you don't love him he deserves someone who does. Good Luck on everthing!
2006-08-10 07:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by amber_1cutie_goodgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you are being fair to the guy you are with now. If you are in love with somebody else, but stringing this guy along...it's time to break up with him. It might hurt him, but it's going to hurt him less than if you stay with him, and then he finds out in a year that you have never been in love with him. That's just mean.
2006-08-10 07:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by lissachck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the bf now, dont drag him along & waste his time. Go for the friend. when you dump the bf be gentle but firm & dont do the whole lets be friends thing, cut off contact so he can get over you otherwise he will think your leading him on. Friends are the best bf's. good luck..
2006-08-10 07:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by sexy momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to follow your heart. I dont think you should tell your boyfriend you love him when you dont. i know its going to be hard and he's going to be hurt. but it you are in love with someone else you should be with the other person and plus its not fair to your boyfriend if you tell him that and you dont care for him that way. tell him before he gets more attached to you.
2006-08-10 07:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by jenks1545 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend "thinks", he doesn't "know", that he loves you. Just dump your b/f and tell your BEST friend that you are in love with him.
2006-08-10 07:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your bf and go out with the one you love.
2006-08-10 07:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do not love him tell him it is the best thing you could do, then wait a few weeks and go out with your freind.
2006-08-10 07:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by The original John Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with your boyfriend and follow your heart.
2006-08-10 07:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by fire84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fallow your heart no sence in waisting time w. this guy who loves you- but u dont love back . i would distance my self from the unwanted man ... and spend more time w. the one who you love.
2006-08-10 07:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by MISS PIMPIN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋