Alright, me and my girl had been going out for about 9 months, and it was great for like 4 or 5 months. Towards the end, we started to settle down, and that fire in the relationship kind of died. I broke up with her 3 weeks ago because I was stressed over quite a bit of things, such as job, finding new apartment, friends, and school. I wanted some time alone because at the time I felt like I would be much better off alone, but now I just feel awful. I have met so many different girls and none of them seem interesting at all, and I just keep thinking of my ex. We havent seen each other since the break up and haven't talked in a week, but we don't talk becuase she said she wanted time to herself. I have a feeling she wants me back, but doesn't want me back because I might hurt her again.
From a girl's point of view please, would it be wierd if I showed up where she works to talk to her again. Would that be sweet, or stalker, and is there any chance we might get back together?
2006-08-10 07:29:47 · 7 answers · asked by skatesa207 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Send her an E-Mail or make a phone call.
2006-08-10 07:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be a tricky thing.
I would make it more personable by sending her a note with flowers, making a phone call, or emailing. But don't go to her job. You could possibly send the note and flowers to her job, but don't you make an appearance. It make take some time but if she is really who you desire you are going to have work at it.
Times are rough and every time we go through a little bit of something doesn't mean we have to start cutting people off. She could have been the shoulder you needed when you felt low she could have lifted you up, that's what supposed to happen in a relationship. So when the going gets tough don't quit. Let her know your true feelings.
Please remember don't quit when it gets tough in your life or within your relationship. Work at it communicate with your woman she may have the answer to your problem.
2006-08-10 14:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by sweetcincylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her flowers with a note saying how you feel. Then wait for her to contact you. After all chicks like flowers. Tried to reply to your email so I will try this: Go to her work and ask her to lunch. I don't think that is a big deal besides everyone has to eat. If you love someone don't give up. Good Luck.
2006-08-10 14:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jeanette C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a chance just keep things interesting if you do get back together. Don't let things just die. Go back slowly to her call her up and stuff. Going to her work place might be a bit intrusive to her. Take it easy. Let her know you care. Don't go back if you know it will end even worse then before.
2006-08-10 14:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by pinkbunnylol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in similar relationship, but reverse. The chick dumped me for the same reasons, and she started dating other dudes. I was depressed, but meet and nailed new girls, but they are not interesting at all. They're just pieces of meat to me.
I haven't seen my ex in 8 months and I still think about her.
At moments I want to get back to her, but things will probably get back to the way they were.
I recommend you let her go.
2006-08-10 14:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will come across as a stalker/manipulative jerk. Just let it go.
2006-08-10 15:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT WOULD BE SO SWEET MIGHT GET HER IN TROUBLE WITH HER BOSS THOUGH
2006-08-10 14:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by tomboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋