I met a guy less than 6months now and after years of deciding I was content single, I gave him a chance because he said he loves me and even went as far as placing me on his cell phone screen saver. He treated me very well until I gave in and decided to give love one last chance.
Now that we are in a relationship he doesn’t give that much effort, he doesn’t take me out and mostly wants to make love, every weekend he wants to hang with his buddies and now its too late for me just to walk away because in the time that we did spend together I have acquired alot of feelings for him. Well last night I brought dinner over and we talked and watched T.V his phone rang about 940 pm and it was a girl he told her he was chilling with no mention of me, and said he will see her Saturday he ended the convo by saying he will call her back later and hung up about 10pm by then flames were rushing through my head I go dressed and asked him to lock the door.
2006-08-10 07:27:56 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he might have lost intrest after he got you. but u never know... are u sure that shes not only a female friend, but someone he is intrested in??? because me personally i hate wen people tell me to leave someone wen theres feelings attached, because its not that easy at all to let someone u care aobut go! im the type of person who thinks talkin things out is the key in a relationship. so try talkin to him and if that doesnt work, just start talkin to other guys and that will help u get over him OR it'll get him jealous so maybe he'll pay more attention to you... but dont give up on love because you choose who u want to be with!
Hope that helped, good luck ♥
2006-08-10 07:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by custom_made_mami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's got more thn one girl he's interested in. That's no big deal, is it? A lot of people date more than one person at a time. So you should do the same. Don't put all of your eggs in one basket until it seems that both of you are doing so.
On the other hand, you can also just ask him not to see other people.
Certainly, now that you've kicked him out of your apartent, you should give yourself some time to cool off and let him come back to you. Don't call him. Let him call you.
2006-08-10 14:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by dSweetBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys like a challenge and when they have you they get bored and move on. The fact that he answered the call in front of you means either that he doesn't care and wants to get rid of you and is hoping you will do the break-up for him or that he is testing you and wants to add a little drama to the relationship like you guys had before when you resisted.
If you like the guy and feel the relationship is worth it, pull back a little and don't be so available all the time.
2006-08-10 14:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumb the bum. You deserve better respect than what he has demonstrated. That was totally uncalled for and needs to be address. I would talk to him first and depending on his response; we would have a relationship or I would be on a manhunt.
So you were single for a while. Don't be scared to find true love, from someone who will treat you like a lady. We all find comfort in settling; but not when you sacrifice your happiness, and dignity.
2006-08-10 14:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are at a crossroads . he is in control. if you move out you will know if he will reconsider restoring the relationship. if he stays with this other girl you should move on. he is worthy to have your love and attention. think about your health she might be carrying something that you may not want any part of. be smart on this one. there are plenty of good men out there you are not stuck by no means.
2006-08-10 14:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by sifustu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew the answer to the question before I read all the bio! Yes leave him alone. Unless you wanna hook up with him and his new girl at the same time. That will help his ego. RUN LIKE HELL!
2006-08-10 14:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats too bad you should try talking to him and see if he really likes this girl and if he does than you need to brake up with him because he if don't love like he says he does than he don't deserve you.
2006-08-10 14:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by Mar Mar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the guy. He is treating you with no respect and you shouldn't take that. You totally deserve better then him.
2006-08-10 14:33:56 · answer #8 · answered by maxie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find another guy that will treat you better.
2006-08-10 14:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by rb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it made you so angry go and comfront him about it. It may be innocent.
2006-08-10 14:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by Learner 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋