So im going out with this guy, his 17 im 18 we're going out for a couple of weeks now, and i met him on myspace, we knew each other before but we never talked. Anyway the thing is that he treats me real good like a princess he buys me anything i want we go out to eat spend alot of time together and also we talk on the phone for hours but here's the catch he has alot of ex's that comment his myspace telling him "Oh i see u got a new gurl less see how it goe's with dis one" some others put "damm it was mad ****** up wat u did less see how it goes with dis one" etc, and many of his ex's tell me that he's not worth it, that his a liar and cheeter. When I told him that he said " baby they all just mad because i left them and im not with them no more". Really i don't know who to believe what can I do, he's a real nice guy but i dunno if to trust him (help please)
2006-08-10 07:26:38 · 8 answers · asked by qnzlilmami018 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you REALLY want to pursue it, you can give him the benefit of the doubt and just watch out for anything suspicious on his part. If you know the people who made those comments and don't trust them (i.e., they're idiots), then it makes more sense to give him the benefit of the doubt. It would also help if you knew what it was he did. It's all up to you to decide if he's worth the trouble. I think you should just be careful if you think he's trustworthy. If you don't think he's trustworthy, you should not be with him. Good luck!
2006-08-10 07:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those girls could just be jealous, don't base a relationship off what others say about a guy. And even if he did cheat on them maybe he didnt like him like he likes you. You need to take a chance but keep your guard up for a while and as you guys hang out more and spend more time together slowly let it down. My bf's ex's always said those things to but now we have been together for almost 2 years, im 18 as well. So give it a chance but dont get your hopes up just in case they are right
2006-08-10 14:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't believe him. He is a guy! They are usually good liars. I was in the same situation. I didn't believe my girls when they told me that he wasn't any good for me, and in the end he really was a liar. He may seem like a really nice guy, but that's what he wants you to think. I would get rid of him and find a guy without so much baggage.
2006-08-10 14:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by smuggie71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let them girls talk all they want. They are just jealous that you have a nice guy. Why does it matter what they say? As long as your happy who cares what other people say. It's between you and him not you and him and the ex's. Never mind them and move forward with him and forget the past. Everyone has skeletons in their closets.
2006-08-10 14:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need some advice talk less I did not read your whole explanation cause is just too much for a answer but talk less and less drama will make you much easier with your BF.
2006-08-10 14:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to believe your heart. Every guy deserve a second chance, but since he has a bad score on his ex. test him out, don't give him to much right now, and see how things goes.
2006-08-10 14:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dont u talk to the girls to c what happened yup lol
2006-08-10 14:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by ClickSubscribe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not, it is left to you.
2006-08-10 14:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋