Or has a stranger grabbed yours? And how did you / or the other person react?
Some lady grabbed my butt at the grocery store and my kids saw her do it, I pretty much didn't care. Latter I tryed it out my friend thought I was nuts and through a rant right in the store giving me a speach about how you just don't grab a girls butt.
Realy no reaction from her she just looked at me for a sec she smiled but not an enthusiastic flirty smile just a regular smile.
2006-08-10 07:22:41 · 16 answers · asked by position28 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I grabbed a woman's butt once... mistaking it for someone else's.
The teeth were re-set by a very good dentist.
2006-08-10 07:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by racingcowboy58 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has different feelings about their "personal space." Some people are prone to hug frequently while others prefer not to be touched by strangers. Some people stand close to others when they talk to them and others prefer to have some distance.
Not knowing how a stranger feels about being touched - you are risking offending someone when you reach out and touch a stranger in any way.
Given that a man touching a woman's butt can have a sexual suggestion to it - that man is risking offending a woman a great deal.
It might be good for a laugh with your buddies and a rare woman might be complimented, but you are also potentially hurting another woman's feelings or making her feel violated.
If you want to do it as a compliment or make her smile - compliment her on what she is wearing and tell her she has pretty eyes. That will make any woman's day and shouldn't offend her at all.
2006-08-10 07:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by Tamborine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to know how the butt-owner feels about it before you do it. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Some people think it's no biggie and that's fine, but have respect for those who don't feel that way. Some people think it's desrespectful and that's fine too.
I got my butt grabbed at a club and after I gave the guy the speech and the slap I came to find out that he thought it was okay b/c I was dressed sexy.
i am here to tell you that wearing a miniskirt does not mean slap my ***.
I assure you that when I picked-out, bought, and wore my cute little mini-skirt at no point was "i hope my *** gets slapped by a stranger" a selling point.
Guys can be so stupid!
Soap box over: PEACE!
2006-08-10 08:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by lasksy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In college, there was this random butt-grabber guy who would squeeze girls butts around campus. He did it to one of my friends, and she was so upset. The following day, she was in the elevator with me when he walked in. She told me it was him. There were about 4 other people in there, too. Well, from that mirror on the ceiling, I saw his hand slowly coming towards my tush. I waited for the perfect moment and elbowed him in the stomach. He made a sarcastic comment so I turned around and kneed him too. Everyone started clapping, and I said "Don't screw with my a**, b***h!" I never heard of another butt grabbing incident after that, thank you very much.
However, my man is allowed to grab my butt whenever he wants to - he has my full permission. :)
2006-08-10 09:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I in no way have. And specific, i could be mad if somebody did that to me. I labored with a woman whose husband got here in as quickly as. I had met him till now so we've been conversing slightly. As I grew to become to go away he slid his hand down from my back to my butt and hung on. I grew to become to him and pronounced "i will not be able to have faith you in basic terms did that, i've got faith ill". His spouse got here and apologized for him yet I somewhat have not spoken to him by using fact. I thoroughly forget approximately approximately him now.
2016-10-01 22:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone once did with me. I felt really offended. No-one has the right to touch my body that way just out of the blue.
Maybe you didn't mind with that lady. But now imagine a horrible unattractive old guy or woman. Would you still not mind?
2006-08-10 07:29:06 · answer #6 · answered by Bloed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's happened at bars a couple times when rude guys felt me up, but other than that I used to grab my friend's butts just to bother them.
2006-08-10 07:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by Kookoo Bananas 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No if I did that I'd get smashed by the Woman pretty hard across
the face or right cross with her fist
2006-08-10 09:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by markm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 18 or so, i went to the carnival in town . this girl in front of me had the prettiest rounded butt i had ever seen in my life. she had on the tightest blue jeans. I could not control myself. i walked up behind her and pinched her butt so hard when she screamed you could hear her over the carnival sounds.
2006-08-13 13:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by duc602 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was with 3 friends in Las Vegas, having our picture taken with an Elvis impersonator. He said "OK, let's all squeeze together", and I uh, gave his cheek a little squeeze. I hope he didn't know it was me.
2006-08-10 07:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋