i have been going out with her for more than a month now, this saturday we were supposed to go out but when i called her in the morning she simple said I CANT, she woudnt tell me wut was rong , i insisted , so finally she said look dunn hate me but i think we are not at the same page im not ready for all this seriousness, i mean if u really like me as much as it seems like then there is a problem i mean like our telephone calls and all the i miss u n i want u n stuff im not there yet its only been a month blah blah... she is basically sayinn taht im too obsesive or sth along those lines, shes kind of right coz i have paid too much attention to her lately and tahts never good but truly i want a casual relationship too, i have so much other **** in my life but unfortunately coz of the things ive said it has seemed to her that my life revolves round her and... I tod her ok lets talk bout this sometime in person and we agreed and thats it. but she hasnt call ever since...
2006-08-10 07:22:40 · 13 answers · asked by coooollguy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to call coz it would show that ok ya i NEED her and it would only prove her point that we are not at the sme page and im TOO SERIOUS with the relationship. Truly i kno i dunn LOVE her and i juss want sth casual too... but i have made her think that like shes all my life n **** coz of the stupid cheesy crap that i say but dunn even mean...
2006-08-10 07:24:50 · update #1
Come on people tell me what to do, last time i talked to her was last saturday i called her today no one picked up, i didnt leave a message coz she lives with her parents. What shoud i do? i kno wut she wants from a relationship and i want the same thing im at the SAME PAGE but it has seemed to her taht im in love n obsessive or something :S
2006-08-11 12:06:57 · update #2
Call her at some point to show you care. But don't talk about how you miss her and all that jazz. Just call her to say hi. Don't do it every day, maybe every other day. But you shouldn't go a whole week or so without talking to her. That's not good either.
2006-08-10 07:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Modern_Monroe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She told you that you're moving too fast because she thought it'd be a ncie way to tell you that she isn't that into you. You should just let her go and cut your losses. If she really wants to be with you, let it be on her. Don't give her anymore reason to try to say it's you.
2006-08-17 22:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me when I say move on you came on to strong you scared her. You have to learn to control your feelings and not seem so desperate. Take time to get to know her these things take time.
This is probably not what you wanted to hear but it's the way it is.
2006-08-18 13:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
2006-08-10 14:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sweepy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut the crap n move on. U had her so what there to go back to.
2006-08-10 14:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh just move on dude fine some one on the "right" page lol
2006-08-10 14:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by ClickSubscribe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD NOT CALL HER, JUST GIVE HER THE SPACE
SHE NEED, AND IF SHE WANT TO CALL YOU THEN GOOD
IF NOT DONT SWEAT IT, I WOULD NOT JUST BE SITING
BY THE PHONE, AND START LIVING YOUR LIFE, THEN
SEE HOW IT GOES.
2006-08-17 01:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave her alone, why bother her, there are still lots of fish in the sea, she' not that into you...
2006-08-18 11:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by flower_roxy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call her leave her alone an dlet her sort her feelings.Then she'll call you when she's ready.
2006-08-10 14:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-08-18 11:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋