ok so i was makin out with my boyfriend the other day and he kept tryin to put his hands down my pants....and i kept grabbing his hand to stop him and he kept doin this like 5 times before i told him not to......but why dont guys get the hint after like the first 2 times that girls dont want to do this???
2006-08-10 07:15:52 · 41 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys are very persistent. That is why you need to take the upper hand and tell them NO. And if they can't respect that. Then don't see him again. No guy has the right to touch you anywhere on your body if your don't want them to. They need to respect what you want. I'm glad you said no. And keep saying no till your ready for what you want. But let me tell you once he gets the hint and if he really cares for you he will respect you and know your not like those other girls that let the guys touch them all over. Good luck!
2006-08-10 07:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well, firstly a guy(or girl)should take the hint the FIRST time you say something. no means no.
but the reason men persist, on occasion, is because they've been taught by society that sometimes no just means "try again in a few minutes". a good way to break this habit is to simply say "no" the first time, and if he persists then just stop making out with him for awhile. he'll learn to behave soon enough if you're consistent with this.
2006-08-10 07:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by entropicflux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You opened the flood gates when you started making out. That sends guys the signal that you are interested and willing. So naturally they are going to try anything and everything they can to get a little farther and break you down a little more each time. Boys are single minded, and what's on their mind 24/7 is sex.
2006-08-10 07:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they think that if they can keep pushing you that finally you will just be like ok go head i dont care anymore. Thats what most girls do. They just get tired of having to stop them over and over and they get agrivated so they think that if they let them then they will stop begging for a while!
2006-08-10 07:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by Lauran 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks you're playing hard to get, or like me he enjoys a challenge. You are naive if you think that a simple action will dissuade him from repeated attempts. Even vocalizing your distaste might not work, sometimes no means yes, and depending on how you say it, it could be an invitation to proceed. I suggest you either get over your fears or get with someone who is as shy as you are.
2006-08-10 07:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by CW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the time of heat men are thinking pleasure, and has no sense of comprehending, until you plain out say it. if your not in the mood or dont want to edge on anything more than kissing dont start the fire at all. guys get started and we cant stop. a kiss here and their works but heavy make out action tells us you want more.
2006-08-10 07:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by taddtad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys aren't good with hints when they have two heads and only enough blood to run one of them at a time.
2006-08-10 07:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by racingcowboy58 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello jojo,
You like making out with your boyfriend, but you want to be the one to stop it at your limit. It sounds like your boyfriend already surpassed his limit. What kind of c0ck tease are you? You kind of get off dangling yourself in front of him, don't you? Guys only have so much self control at that age.
Be more considerate of what your boyfriend is going through.
--Rick
2006-08-10 07:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, most guys who do that really just want your body-SEX!. If your into them and they move fast like that, you shouldnt stay around for a relationship!. ALSO! if he kept doing it after you said, NO, thats him not RESPECTING you! so thats another way to sense hes scum.
2006-08-10 07:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by eastcoastxxi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c if u allow him 2 continue 2 kiss u, then he will try 2 do more...Y not? That's how guys, not all, think.
2006-08-10 07:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by MsLadie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋