why does guys always want to have sex on the first date? is there nothing else to do with a female?
2006-08-10 07:13:36 · 17 answers · asked by jackie brown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want sex WITHOUT the date...
2006-08-11 10:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kiowa1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though I will not sit here and deny that it doesn't cross any guys head, including mine. I think that most guys see it as the ultimate sense of acceptance. They've already accepted you, they went out with you didn't they? at least, thats what goes through their mind, the rest of it is getting you to accept them, they can't go by the fact that (hey, you went out with them too therefore they may have been accepted) they want finality, that at the end of the date, she's so into you that she's willing to go right than and there. This is an unfortunate aspect of the male drive. That is why I try and go on first dates where sex is almost an impossibility. And the option to go to the "other's" place does not happen. Keeps your focus on the person, and not what your trying to prove.
2006-08-10 14:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by direly_confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I didn't expect that from my fiance when we first met. In fact if indeed that had happened I don't think that she'd be my future wife. We drank coffee, ate brunch and sat by the water for the full day just chatting about our interests, hopes, dreams, life experiences etc on our first date. As a matter of fact I didn't even get a kiss but she did give me a very warm hug.
2006-08-10 14:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of other things to do -- that's not really an issue!! We want to have sex on the first date and everyone there after!! How about you do you like and want sex???
2006-08-11 17:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by xxx69forall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never try to do that on the first date.... I prefer to make their lives good for a while first and then when the time is right and I know this is what I want then I start to think like that. I like to do other cool things like travel and go to cool places and do cool things that I've never done before...
2006-08-11 17:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by private 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason girls want attention on the first date, to see if things will work out.
2006-08-10 14:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont always want to have sex on first date, but it is an added bonus
2006-08-10 14:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by smutmonkey71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the guy but for a man to say he's not intrested in sex is silly If a women offers me sex unless she's gross I'll probably sleep with her but when I go out for the first time I don't try to pressure the women into sex
2006-08-10 14:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by ccameronbeaty78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if we are already attracted to you, why WOULDN'T we want to go as far as you'll let us.
Yes, its our favorite thing to do with a woman.
Is it necessarily a bad thing. Nope. My wife started off as a weekend fling that just clicked. Happily married for 6 years.
2006-08-10 14:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Jackie Brown,
Because guys need sex more than girls.
2006-08-10 14:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋