Should rings be returned when a proposed marriage does not happen
2006-08-10 07:12:17 · 19 answers · asked by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You don't have to return it legally you can keep it. You just have to ask yourself if you really want that reminder of a failed relationship.
2006-08-10 07:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by sonik_starz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Legally an engagement ring is a gift and thus it belongs to the bride-to-be. Depending on the circumstances though, it may be best to simply give it back. I would say that if the bride is the one breaking it off (another man or something equally ooky) she should give it back as that ring was a symbol of a promise to the groom. However, if the groom was the one cheating or something, then keep that sparkler!!
As for the wedding rings, if they have been purchased, most jewelry stores will refund or exchange. If they are yours, go buy yourself something nice with the money!
2006-08-10 15:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! The engagement ring is given with the intent that the woman will become his wife. If you had said no to the proposal, you wouldn't have gotten the ring. You get the ring only so long as you are engaged. Otherwise, it gets returned.
2006-08-10 14:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes because a ring is given in contemplation of marriage. If the marriage is off, then the person who bought the ring should get it back. It doesn't matter who broke up with who. This is the law in PA and a lot of ther states as well. The old law gave the ring back to the guy if she called it off, but she got to keep it if he called it off. It isn't like this anymore.
2006-08-10 14:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's mixed. THe ring represents the promise of marriage and the bond that is to come. If you are no longer engaged, why keep the ring? You do not needto wear it because you are no longer engaged. If you just want to sell it, your intentions are wrong and he is lucky not to go in further with you. Others say it's just a gift and gifts do not need to be returned. Still others say if it was pricey, you are expected to return the gift. Be fair.
2006-08-10 14:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by the Goddess Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, always. The engagement ring is not a gift, per se, it is for the specific purpose of betrothal. If the marriage is not happening, the man gets the ring back.
2006-08-10 17:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would return it, but that is just me. I really would want no reminder of the person. Some would tell you to keep it, to pawn it, to throw it away, or whatever, but i believe that it is up to you to do what you want with it.
If the guy isnt asking for it back and you dont feel bad keeping it, go ahead, but if the ring is going to cause your more headaches by keeping it, I say let it go.
2006-08-10 15:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are under no legal obligation to (an engagement ring is a gift, thus your property now), but generally it is thoughtful to return an engagement ring unless your ex prefers that you keep it.
2006-08-10 14:17:16 · answer #8 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. In fact, in some states you can get sued for not returning the ring.
2006-08-10 14:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by Etiquette Gal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really depends on what circumstances are involved in the break up. If he breaks it off, then she keeps the ring. If she breaks it off, she returns the ring unless he tells her to keep it.
Good luck!
2006-08-10 14:27:47 · answer #10 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋