Im in a situation where i've written/ called someone and i haven't heard jack from them in about 3 weeks (the last time i saw her it we hit it off but now i haven't heard anything even though i've written her). I've already moved on but now i wonder. What should i do if i see that person again? Should i be mean? act normal? what?
2006-08-10 07:12:03 · 37 answers · asked by Max 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just smile and say hi. You don't need to make conversation with that person. If that person comes up to talk to you, don't mention anything about the letters and phone calls. If they do mention it to you than listen for the explanation. If you think it's a bunch of crap then go with the flow and move on. Don't waste your time on someone like that. To much drama!
2006-08-10 07:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's not into you if she hasn't called you.
She could have just played you the last time you thought you'd hit it off with her. Do not mistake a smile or a friendly chat as being a good sign that you have a chance with her.
Women are experts in socializing. She was just being nice. Or she could be with someone else.
If you see her again do not remind her of what you did. Let her be the first one to volunteer the information.
If she reminds you of what happened between you, then probably you made a bit of an impact in her life.
Then you ask her why she hasn't called you. Play it safe and be smart.
2006-08-10 07:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by stardustalpha2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play dumb, as if nothing happened. Act normal, talk about all regular stuff, and do not ask for explanation. If one is offered then it is good as it will show that the person in a way feels guilty for not calling and maybe had some kind of situation... If the person stays silent... no words are needed anyhow.
Are you sure that you weren't supposed to be the one to call?
2006-08-10 07:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by hellothere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act Normal. If you show any emotion like anger, sadness then you are giving that person the power to think that she still means something to you even thought you moved on. So act like nothing, be friendly and don't mention anything about the incident. Make her A.S.S wonder now, why you acted the way you did.
2006-08-10 07:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's irresponsible, rude, insensitive and a jerk! I just went through the EXACT same thing with a guy! We were going along fine and then all of a sudden he dropped all communication! I have no idea what happened. I tried calling/e-mailing and with no response!
I'm sorry this happened to you - I know how you feel.
I just picked up my pride, moved on and am now dating the sweetest man ever!
You're dreamboat WILL come along, trust me!
To answer the second part of the question . . . if you see her again, just treat her with respect (no matter how hard it might be) and make sure she knows you have definitely moved on without her and you are doing fine!
I know it's hard, but you will get over this!
I hope my answer has helped you! I care!
2006-08-10 07:20:42 · answer #5 · answered by penwrite5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about her. If your thrown into a situation with her then act normally and just don't bring anything up. But I don't recommend you keep calling her as she's probably not interested in which case she's not worth it because she could AT LEAST call you back and tell you that.
2006-08-10 07:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act normally. Just because you think you've been rejected by her is no reason to be mean and possibly fortify her reasoning behind not seeing you romantically. Besides, people can always change their minds. The nicer you are, the more she may feel that SHE made the mistake.
2006-08-10 07:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by Hidden .38 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be pleasant and civil as you would to any acquaintance. If she wanted more of a relationship, she would have responded to you by now, and you already said you've moved on, so you're not interested in pursuing it. There's no point in being mean. There's enough of that around. Rise above it.
2006-08-10 07:14:18 · answer #8 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act normal. It might be that they as well have moved.. On!. But, you cant jump to conclusions. Dont sweat it. If a person is really into another, its really followed by a response.
2006-08-10 07:15:44 · answer #9 · answered by eastcoastxxi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is giving you the cold shoulder, but you should also remember that are people who are just plain unreliable, disorganized, self-preoccupied, forgetful.
Next time you see her, I would suggest that you mention the problem but in a calm, friendly way. In other words, give her the benefit of the doubt until she proves herself either way.
2006-08-10 07:16:30 · answer #10 · answered by DomC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋