Do we pick whom we love or does love pick us? Can it be that it is just an attraction to a personality a look a body type? And if real love is true, can you grow to love or is love at first sight real love?
2006-08-10 06:53:59 · 1 answers · asked by Classico 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
There are two types of love- loving someone/thing and being in love. being in love and loving someone are two different things. I think you can love a whole lot of times, but being in love is so rare and beautiful, that it isnt as frequent. There is also lust. Lust happens when we see things through rose colored glasses. It what makes you hot under the collor, weak at the knees and sweat profusely at the thought or sight of that person- but that is where it ends, no love, no being in love, just intense passion (not to say you cant have passion with someone you are in love with or love.)
Outward appearances drive some people towards certain types of possible partners. It has been shown that even in the beginning of time women usually went towards the men who appeared to be able to be good providers. Strong men usually caught more food, thus taking care of his family. Smaller, weak men werent ideal for that position.
Love at first sight is a farce- you can only have lust or like at first site. You cant love someone at first sight because you havent given yourself time to learn about them.
2006-08-10 08:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋