2006-08-10 06:48:20 · 6 answers · asked by us_against_da_wrld 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
First off, from experience, find out why they disapprove. Are you too young? Is he not right for you. As much as you hate it, they might have some feeling that you have not thought of. If, you've considered everything, and you do want to go ahead and get married, just have a heart to heart talk with them, inforcing the fact that you have listened to their ideas. Happy Wedding!
2006-08-10 06:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have to sit down with them but have your fiance with you like it or not he's going to be part of the family. and have him do it the old fashion to ask for hand in marriage but listen if they turn him down be prepared to be the grown up. and tell them you are willing to get married even if they don't approve but it will mean so much to you if they where to be a part of your special day.... member keep an even tone voice and good luck!
2006-08-10 14:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by LIZA P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the arguements of the family. Is your other controlling, bad with money, disrespectful to you? These are legitimate concerns. If they just don't like him then inform them you are eloping and do it.
2006-08-10 14:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by madamesophia1969 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean, family can get so overrated sometimes, as long your happy they should be happy for you, if they dont approve tell a little scare to them that you won't invite them
2006-08-10 14:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by Newlywed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your decisions not there's. I would tell them that you are and there is nothing they can do about it and tell them if they want to come they can and if not then that's fine to
2006-08-10 14:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by Crysta L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell them.
2006-08-10 14:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋