I was wondering if anyone can tell if penetration hurts after not having sex for over 8 months.
2006-08-10 06:46:35 · 35 answers · asked by lover99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A girl gets tighter after so long, so yes, you will feel a lil pain, but it goes away almost instantaneously.
Guys don't feel any pain.
2006-08-10 06:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether you are a woman or a man and your age. Going without that long hurts just thinking about it. I'm a 50 and change male and by the question I'd guess you are a woman. Either way, I've always been one to encourage communication during sex. Don't be shy, you're not saying anything about something the both of you aren't doing. The point of doing it is for pleasure. If you don't tell your partner what it is that's going to make your day, how are they to know? Just get lucky? Relax to start and enjoy your time with your partner, tell them what and where it feels the best and you'll enjoy time well spent.
2006-08-10 07:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jesses Bud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have sex for a whole year and i felt like a virgin again when I did it definitely hurt. The guy wasn't little though. He was about 11-12 inches and i couldn't close my hand around it so maybe it was just his size, LOL. But I guess it depends on the guy too.
2006-08-10 06:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it should hurt, but if he is not carefull when youre having intercorse, it may hurt. Here are some of reasons, 1. infections, 2. to big, 3. he is to hard on you.
If youre having too much pain after having intercorse you need to go to your doctor for a consultation.
Remmeber, you need to talk to your patner and ask him if he feel the same way.
Good luck and enjoy!
2006-08-10 07:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by Camilion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter if you have had sex before or not depending on the size and the % of the hardness it will hurt if you dont remind him it has been eight months
2006-08-10 06:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sex doesnt hurt as much as Love! Have lots of sex and stay away from love until you can handle both in a relationship and both people want it!
2006-08-10 06:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by bigsho222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time it should ever hurt is when the hyman is broken (and many women don't think it even hurts then). Women are elastic, we can have babies, it shouldn't hurt. Often couples simply really don't realize how important lube is! Pick up the KY when you buy the condoms people!
2006-08-10 06:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by Molly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't. you could be a bit sore afterwards but the penetration and act should be like riding a bike as long as you're lubricated.
2006-08-10 07:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont if u have done it b 4 if not it might hurt a bit just deal wit the pain hope u have fun
2006-08-10 06:50:12 · answer #9 · answered by Derek G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each person is unique but I think it might be more difficult if you have not have regular and frequent sex recently.
2006-08-10 06:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by caltink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋