i am in love agian that i feel nd its 9th time.is it ok to fall in love again n again.most of friends tells me that love is happen just for one time.then why i feel that i am falling in love again n again
2006-08-10 06:45:25 · 7 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There was a time in my life when I became afraid to fall in love.
Because every time I fell in love, I got hurt.
I thought maybe that's why it's called falling in love.
I would give my all, loving deeply and wholeheartedly.
It would be a truly emotional and euphoric experience.
I would be dreaming about the object of my affection day and night, imagining good times together, thinking of what I can do or buy for him to show how much I care.
I would feel light, energized and excited, blooming with the joy I feel inside.
Then somehow, something would go wrong and my whole world crash.
Disappointed, Resentment, Anger, Pain, Why?
Can we not love without feeling pain?
Is it really a price to pay for all the happiness we feel when we're in love?
It was only after many years of soul searching and reading inspirational writings that I realized that we could love without getting hurt.
Only recently did I understand what unconditional love is all about.
Love is one of the most powerful forces in the universe.
It is the fire that burns inside, the essence of being.
It is a precious gift that defines our purpose in life.
If we keep in mind that we can indeed preserve its true meaning, we can love to the fullest and be truly happy.
Accept the fact that other people express theirlove differently.
How do you express love?
You say "I love you three times a day".
You kiss and embrace as often as you can.
You never forget anniversaries.
You always prepare his favorite dishes.
How does he express love?
He rarely says, "I love you".
He seldom kisses you.
He forgets your birthday and he doesn't know how to cook.
But he works overtime, walks the dog, takes out the garbage,
takes you to the movies and calls you "Honey".
He probably loves you more than you can imagine.
He just shows it differently.
If you can accept that then you will have a healthier perspective of your relationship.
Derive happiness from giving love.
When you love, do it because you want to.
Just give it.
And cherish the satisfaction in having given someone something of yourself.
It's like giving a gift whether it is appreciated or not, find joy in simply giving.
Love without expecting anything in return.
Pain comes in when you demand something in return for the love you give.
You are setting yourself up for disappointment.
Love cannot always be reciprocal.
Love between two people can never be of the same intensity at the same time and place.
No matter how much your partner loves you, he/she will never fill all your needs all the time.
And you will be waiting in misery forever, if you believe you should love only when you are sure to receive equal love in return.
Love now.
The past is gone and the future is justa dream.
All of yesterday's aches and pains, as well as the loves and laughter, are mere memories.
Let them go.
Fantasies and worries are for a future that may never come.
Don't dwell on them.
Live now.
Give love now. Do it and enjoy it now.
Throw away those destructive habits.
When you insist upon yourself that you always have to be in control, that you always have to be right, that others must always please you, you put yourself in a very tight spot.
Loving relationships are flexible- Dynamic and evolving.
Leave room now for a change interaction.
Allow for new behavior and learning experiences.
When we welcome these in our lives, we open ourselves to sharing more love and affection and less frustration and pain.
Yes, you will say unconditional love is easier said than done.
Especially when we have always believed that love is give and take.
But believe that love is simply giving.
And you will be surprised that a lot of it, even more, actually comes back to you .
2006-08-10 10:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by Avatar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You falling in love again and again is beyond comprehension.
Why love happens is due to the crave for mental satisfaction resulting from love.
What many people say may not be applicable for you, isn't it?
Your question, 'then why' could be assessed by you only, sin absence of your physiological details.
2006-08-10 17:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...you do not in basic terms discover love as quickly as, however the 1st is the toughest and is not repeated. I, being 40 two, have fallen two times. My first lasted 13 years....my 2nd is in simple terms now beginning. you will know once you will discover love once you come across which you omit the guy, yet do not continuously might desire to be with the aid of their factor. one factor I somewhat have got here across...follow your heart, yet hear on your ideas/inner voice. good luck.
2016-10-01 21:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by ammon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People fall in love b'coz there is somebody to hold you.
People falls in love b'coz when Love comes in your life it transfer your world into happy paradise.
2006-08-10 18:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by s s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be confused and it could be just lust which can decieve you. love is more then just telling the person that you love them, you will never ever want to be away from that person ever!
2006-08-10 06:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by kimber g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bcoz its not true love.
2006-08-10 17:04:45 · answer #6 · answered by aaryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat youa re going through is just aatractions and crushes not real love it does not fluctuate
2006-08-10 17:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by manini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋