Of course. It is a part of growing up. Girls go through this as well, with their dads. You will get MANY replies from people, young people....teens....who will associate this with sex,because they associate just about everything with sex. When you feel attraction to parents, it is natural. It depends on how it is handled,both by the parent and the child. There are MANY people I am attracted to...that doesn't mean I would ever have sex with them. It means I am drawn to them. I admire or am fasinated with them. Do some reading from books written by professionals. You'll find none of those authors on this fun, but very silly site.
2006-08-10 06:47:00
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answered by I am Sunshine 6
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If there is such the stage, they out grow it and only want whores. Think about it, even if a guy does marry a nice girl with mother like tendencies to take care of him and all that fun stuff, he still in turn will end up cheating on her with some skank bag stripper eventually. It's never happened to me but I'm sure it will, all men are the same, they cheat and lie and dont know what they want.
2006-08-10 06:48:36
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answered by Jersey Style 5
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Yes and if you were raised with a father you went through the same stage with him when you were about 5 or 6. It is a normal part of growing up.
2006-08-10 06:49:05
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answered by Anonymous
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That idea came from Freud, who had a thing for his mom, (edipus complex) since his dad was so strict. Since he regarded himself as normal, he thought all guys went through it. His theories have mostly been discredited, but he's taught in school because he was the first person to look at mental problems in a scientific way (cause and effect)
To answer your question, no, most boys are not lusting for mom.
2006-08-10 06:51:31
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answered by nursesr4evr 7
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I think this happens to guys who have a sick mother. Some single mothers are really attracted to their sons and they take advantage of the fact that they are their mother. They think that they have the right to have contact with their son, even when he is 13 years old or older. They would tell you they hug him, caress him and kiss him in a "motherly" way, but the truth is they need contact with a man (which is normal) and they have it with their son (which is not normal, but sick). Very rarely you'll find this in women who have a husband or a boyfriend, even when they are good mothers and love their sons, they would respect them, and they would satisfy their needs with a man not with their sons.
2006-08-10 07:41:33
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answered by Atanasia 2
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"think they're pr"? What's that mean?
What stage? Most men love their mother. Don't you love your father? Why is it everyone has to look for this bizzare relationship?
2006-08-10 06:47:53
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answered by Quasimodo 7
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it's a guy thing i think that its sweet because i want my son to depend on me half the time but not the age of 24 or 35
2006-08-10 06:47:31
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answered by lafred116 2
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Well I never thought of my mom like that but I surly thought that she was an awesome mom and I have never known any buddy that felt that way ether it sounds kinda sick to me
2006-08-10 06:50:56
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answered by delmonticoman 5
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wow i'm gonna be smart here and say that known as the oedipus complex..i think. where guys vye for their mothers attention and compete with their father for it. its what freud believed..but we all know he chats absolute trollop. but yeah anyway something to do with them not feeling adequeate or something and obssessing over their penis size and crap. oh who cares anyway..like i said its trollop..i dont fancy my ma :)
2006-08-10 06:47:58
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answered by JB 2
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Those are usually mama's boys. I would stay away from those unless you wanna get yourself a heartache
2006-08-10 06:47:23
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answered by Angelheart 4
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