I was playing with her bra ..she came in when the sprem ejaculating
2006-08-10 06:24:59 · 45 answers · asked by man_for_tonight 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is a fact of life
ask her if she would like to help you masturbate next time
or if you can watch her since she got to see you
2006-08-10 06:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow. I know you are extremely embarrassed, but nearly every person in the world has done it at least once. I wouldn't worry about it too much though. You may be the family joke for a minute, but keep your head..No pun intended.
To all the people who think he's a perve for using his cousin's bra as ammo for masturbation that's normal. Now if he was using HER picture that would be a different story. A bra is just a bra. He can imagine whoever boobs who wants to be in them. Give him a break! He's suffering enough.
2006-08-10 06:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely apologize for making a mess on her bra, first off--that's just being polite, no matter what. Likewise if you were in her room when you were masturbating; if you hadn't asked permission to come in first, you owe her an apology for that.
As far as having fantasies about her, though, that's pretty normal. Growing up, our first fixations on the opposite sex come from those we're most familiar with, generally those we live with or are related to, because we're most comfortable thinking about them. Often, though, that will be a fairly short phase, and then our attention starts to turn outwards to people outside our immediate sphere, especially once we realize the people related to us would make poor choices for romantic attachments. But for that period of time, crushes on older brothers/sisters, cousins, etc. are all very normal and are part of growing up.
Just...next time, ask first before you borrow their clothes. They might have old clothes they don't use anymore that they wouldn't care if you made a mess with. :P
2006-08-10 06:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by mpetach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks, but is kinda hot too.
Addressing your issue, I think it is best to pretend it never happened or at the most, give her the hey, what can I say I got busted look and say "sorry, it wasn't about you- so don't freak out thinking I have a fantasy about you or anything... I am a guy and I at the mercy of my hormones sometimes.... the bra reminded me of [or your perfume is the same as] [insert fake name] and it really turned me on... sorry you had to see that. I should have been more respectful and descreet about it."
You are not wierd, so don't listen to the jerks. I think it would be great to see the look on someone's face as you were jacking off and got busted. I have always wanted to go to the beach and jack-off in my car while driving around looking at the girls, then when I got ready to blow my load- drive up to one of them and pretend to be asking for directions. She would then be forced to watch my cock explode and spurt **** all over. I would then speed away after I memorized the look on her face. (make sure you take your license plate off first!) Too gutless to do it.
When you think about the situation, can you get past the shame enough to feel a thrill about the moment she busted you? Just wondering....
2006-08-10 06:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by yippieyhurray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deny everything. act like nothing happened. There isnt more details about what happened but if the bra got "stained", take the bra and hide it or throw it to the garbage. She wont say a thing probably.
But now she has a dark secret about you...
2006-08-10 06:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be embarrasing but people go through this stage and I'm sure your cousin understands. But just do not do it on her clothing again.
Why not find a gf and then borrow her bra? or do it with her, if your old enough and responsible enough to engage in sexual activitiy.
2006-08-10 06:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u a girl then damn thats hot, but if u a guy u might be screwed unless u have really cool cousins n she'll be aight wit it talk to her n c what up for real
2006-08-10 06:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by ClickSubscribe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say clean up, then just go at it head on once the discomfort has passed laugh about it for a couple of years ....... It's not that big of a deal......
2006-08-10 07:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like nothing happened and try to laugh about it.its a factor of life
2006-08-10 06:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time ask her to join. You obviously have a thing fot her you sick freak. Why would you be playing with your cousins bra? Thats odd and i think its illegal in some states.
2006-08-10 06:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you need to say sorry to her. talk to her but give that sometime may be now she is not ready to talk with you about it but fine all girls know that boys do masturbate but what you did was a bit wierd. was you in her room doing that? any why let is go but say sorry when you can
2006-08-10 06:29:58 · answer #11 · answered by Rachel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋