need help with 3 yr old?

Question

i watch a good friends 3 yr old 2 or 3 times a week. she stays at my house she goes to day care part time last week when i picked her up she told my daughter that she toched boys penis (teetee) iwhen i asked her a couple days later about it she told me the same thing. i asked her who told her to do that and she said her mommy.she went to her dads for the weekend and than home to her moms and i got her again tues. i did call and tell her mom . her teacher told me this week they are watching her and child and 2 boys where in play house and teacher heard her ask these boys to see there peepees. i talk to her but i guess it doest help cuz yesterday she asked my 13 yr old soon to see his. my husband called the dad this time my gut says shes being abused
but i dont know what to do
any help someone

Answer 1

If the daycare is keeping an eye on it, they have probably already contacted child services. You may want to speak with the daycare center and see what they plan to do and get some suggestions from them.

If you have spoken to both parents and you still don't have any answers, child protective services may be your only option.

Best of luck to you.

Answer 2

This girl is in your care several times per week. You are required by law to be a mandated reporter. This law was designed to protect children. Mandated reporters are doctors, teachers, child care workers, day care providers, etc. This means that you must call the child welfare department about any issues regarding suspected child abuse.

If you do not report your suspicions, and the girl is being abused, you can be fined for not reporting the abuse. So you should file a report with the authorities, who will investigate your complaint.

Answer 3

It sounds as if something has gone on in her life that is not totally normal I mean some curisioty is but that is a little above and beyond. Those are some classic signs of abuse. I say that you need to go to a locla agency or if you don't want to do it in person the call it in on a pay phone or bring it up at the center for the to watch her cause they will not hesitaite to turn it in.

Answer 4

you and the day care need to report this right now. this is not good this child is either being abused or seeing something she should not at her age. asking ? to the parent my cause the child more harm than good. i worked in day care for 4 years seen stuff that was really bad. my day care dedicator wouldn't report these things though she was spouse to. i end up calling Children Services my self. you don't have to leave your name just tell them what the child has done and told you. the child maybe be beating now that people have ask the parents that why you all way's report to Children Services and don't ask ? parent's.

Answer 5

little ones do not start to understand reason till around age 5, so the only factor the reasoning and conversations and questions won't get you some distance. a three 12 months previous will in basic terms respond to useful or damaging reinforcement. It appears like he's previous useful, regardless of if it rather is properly worth attempting. this type of stuff has been stated with the aid of different answerers: praising him whilst he does some thing good, giving him a reason to desire to look after the toddler as a replace of injury her. you're doing an outstanding interest with the aid of being confident you spend time with him. i could develop the controversy of ways he's an outstanding huge brother. What an outstanding helper he's, and so on. teenagers desire to be praised. whilst the toddler cries, take the bottle to him and say, she needs her huge brother to feed her!! or enable him think of he's the superb at making her snort, and so on. Make him her "protector" coach him the failings that are risky for the toddler so he could make confident she would not do them or touch them. finally coach him to "defend" her from falling off the sofa! damaging reinforcement isn't a foul factor. a company NO is an outstanding commence, if he needs stopped... redirect him at recent. yet reasoning, I hate to assert it, won't artwork yet. save on, it rather is probable an element.

Answer 6

Have a heart to heart with her mother about this and really spell out what's going on - she may not be aware of the extent of this behavior. Sometimes children are just curious and play "doctor". She needs to have the limits explained to her and the concept of proper behavior instilled. It's curiosity if there's nothing sexual involved but even this curiosity could leave her vulnerable to a not so nice person taking advantage of her curiosity. If there is even the slightest sexual overtones to her behavior than her parents need to find out what's going on. If her parents are unwilling to look into this or act in a shady manner then you should call your local social services people and discuss your concerns with them.

Answer 7

all kids get wondering about the human body ,i have 4 children from age 9 to 2 years old now if you call dcfs thay will do an investigation on the perents there good for that .
if there is a reason thay will put the child or children in fostercair my mother does fostercair .
better to be safe than sorry .
go with your gut ,and good luck

Answer 8

tell the mother you think there is a serious problem and if you don't see it remedied soon your going to have to report her or the child's father. Yes kids are curious and like to know things but asking to see things like a boys pee pee it's right they either didn't teach her boundaries or it may be she is being touched so she thinks it's OK. If they don;t bother to fix it right away I'd say go ahead and report her. Better to look out for the Innocent than the ignorant

Answer 9

Abuse is quite possible. I am a 1st grade teacher and being curious is not uncommon. Considering she is asking every boy, this may not be curiosity. Someone, like her parents, needs to tell her what to do if someone "touches" her. Her mother needs to sit down with her and try to find out what is causing this behavior.

Answer 10

Call Ur local Family and Children Services or Child WellFair..
That poor child needs to get some help now before it's too late......