ok i am going out with some guy but i have no feeelings for him anymore but then again he stilll has for me and i dun't want to break his heart. we have been going out for 6 months now. Wut do i do??
2006-08-10 05:55:50 · 16 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You definitely need to tell him. The longer you wait, the worse it's going to get. Don't be cruel, but just tell him calmly and simply that for whatever reason, you're not feeling the same way about him you used to. Let him know you still respect him very much as a person, which is why you're telling him this directly, rather than leading him on. It's still not going to be an easy message for him, but he'll respect you more for telling him sooner, and being simple, calm, and direct about it--it lets him know you still respect him and understand he deserves to be told the truth.
Good luck with it, and think of it like pulling a tooth out when you were younger; it hurts, but it's better for the quick pain that you get out of the way, rather than a long, lingering irritating pain--don't wait, or it'll just get worse the more time goes past.
2006-08-10 06:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by mpetach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him. Let him know your true feelings, because if you don't do it now, things will only get worse. And communication is a key to a strong and healthy relationship. Some people make better friends than lovers. Most importantly, just be honest.
2006-08-10 13:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by akronalum 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U dump him and quick, bcuz the longer u wait the worse matters will get. Would u like it if someone who u were going out with didnt like u but still led u to believe that they did? If ur answer is "no", u need 2 tell him the truth.
2006-08-10 13:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by bkempress718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slowly start easing him out of the relationship, and then in about a week sit him down and say that you feel that he's a sweet guy, and while you know that he cares for you, you do not care for him in the way that he deserves, and you hope for all the best for him.
Maybe the two of you can even stay friends.
2006-08-10 13:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead break his heart. He will mend ...pretty fast too cause geeeeeeeeeeez girl it's only been 6 months , what the heck you gonna do when it's 20 years?
2006-08-10 13:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as you don't want to hurt him...it'll hurt him more the longer you wait. His feelings will grow and get more serious and yours won't. Tell him flat out with no games...he deserves to know just as much as you deserve to find someone you really care about.
2006-08-10 13:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by misswolfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth better you do it now than when you have years invested it will hurt worse then contact me if you need advice
2006-08-11 10:40:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth, the longer u wait the harder it gets. So by not wanting to hurt him know, u'll kill him later.
2006-08-10 13:01:55 · answer #8 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tray to till him quickly maybe you find that he has the same feeling -so tell him before he will do
2006-08-10 13:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by tumisat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say ur moving to africa and wont be able to see him any more..JOKIN lol! just like say i dont think its working out and then kiss him hug him then say goodbye.
2006-08-10 13:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by hokuto_adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋