The man i love is a hoe and doesnt return my calls, i dont know how im payin 4 college, my family makes fun of me 4 being too skinny, i am feeling like i have a big rain cloud on top of my head allof the time.Any words of encouragement?
2006-08-10 05:55:46 · 19 answers · asked by bkempress718 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop sticking your finger down your throat for one thing, sell drugs and turn into a lesbian...and guys cant be hoes only girls like you
2006-08-10 06:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have the power to decide that you aren't going to be a victim and to take charge of your life. What good is a boyfriend who won't return your calls? Move on. How are you going to pay for college? Sit down and look at your options. Meet with someone at the college who can help you apply for scholarships and financial aid. Ignore your family's teasing. Being too skinny isn't the worst thing that ever happened to anyone.
Step out from under the rain cloud by getting the attention off of your troubles. Make a list of every good thing in your life that you have to be thankful for. Step out to help someone else or meet someone else's needs. Be a friend to someone. Do something kind for someone else. Listen to someone who is lonely or hurting.
Now, get moving.
2006-08-10 06:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This too shall pass... That is what my family always said when things happened and someone wasn't doing well or feeling his or her best. There is going to be a day when everything will be good again, and your rain cloud will turn into sun!
As for the things that you mentioned... Don't worry about the man - stop calling him, go out with your friends, pamper yourself, and a better one will come around!
Look into student loans and grants for college. Also, you can try to get work/study from your campus which will make the tuition a lot cheaper.
You are too skinny??? Ah, something that I wish that I could complain about. That gives you an excuse to go and get a pint of your favorite ice cream and ENJOY!!!
Best of luck to you! It WILL get better!
2006-08-10 06:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by Only_my_opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on the positive, discard the negative. You have your health, you live somewhere where college is an option (alot of countries have no such schooling options.) Listen to positive and upbeat music. Remember that there are always people who want to help. Contact the financial aide department or financial planners.
Try to let that man go and live his own life. There are many many wonderfull men out there who don't treat their women bad or with disrespect. Have faith in life for the long run, not getting satisfaction right now. If you are patient and positive, good things will come your way.
2006-08-10 06:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Scientist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your alive. As long as you are living you can take control of your life. I am going to level with you about your man, you are in love with him because he is a ho. You got to get over that stuff. It is because he does not return your calls and messes around that you are addicted to him. The more he does not call the more insecure you become. You feel there is something wrong with you and that is why he acts that way. So now you are going to sweat him until he starts to treat you better and at that point you will lose interest and end up cheating on him. As far as your family goes. Are they all super models or something? I don't think so. Don't you be listening to no humpty dumpty azz average people telling you you are too skinny! I bet you got some fat azz girl with ketchup stains on her shirt talking bout how skinny you are. Ignore them haters. Take control of you life now!
2006-08-10 06:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, try to get over the guy. He isn't going to do anything but drag you down. Surround yourself with positive people. There is nothing wrong with being thin, the ones who tease you probably secretly wish they were thin like you. Look into financial aid, grants and scholarship funds for college. You are a smart girl with a bright future. Keep you head up!
2006-08-10 06:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i aint going to be negitive becuz at a time like this u dunt deserve that.....ok 1st off u need 2 leave the guy ur with and find sum1 who will treat u betta and will help u 4get all the things ur family is sayin. i used to b with diz 1 guy for 1 yr n 6 months n he did the same thing 2 me so i got the strenght one day n told him bye.now i got sum1 who i luv 2 death n he helps me 4get all ma problems. as far as being 2 skinny who cares later on in life trust me u will put on a few pounds so dunt care what ne1 says.
2006-08-10 06:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do take the things that others say personally? Everyone is gonna have an opinion but the one you have inside is the only one that really matters. If you can accept yourself then none of these issues would even be a real problem. Set yourself free!
2006-08-10 06:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by Big Mak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your lifes not that bad..
stop loving the guy.. find someone better
just get a job
dont listen to your family.. no ones perfect everyone has their own flaws
remember your not a lone because a lot fo people in this world are going through the same stuf you are.. or maybe even worse
2006-08-10 06:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by mypaperheart8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the club.
Stop looking at the negative, and maybe more positive things will happen for you.
Leave your boyfriend, tell your family it's just the way you are (i used to get that one a lot) and for school, start doing fafsa, and as many scholarships as you can get, call the school up a lot of times they can help find you ways to pay including a school sponsored job.
2006-08-10 06:02:43 · answer #10 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it get you down. Things are never as bad as they seem. Life is hard, but you have to go through the bad to appreciate the good. Things will get easier for you.
You just have to take some initiative. Your life is what you make it.
2006-08-10 06:01:53 · answer #11 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋