Here's the situation. Me and this guy have went out before. I had to break up with him because I went away for a long time and I didnt know when I would be back. Now im back and I really want to be with him SO BAD! But he has a girlfriend, but then he goes and tells my sister that he wants to be with me.... So what should I do? ALL answers are VERY appericated!
2006-08-10 05:44:52 · 27 answers · asked by rachella2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i think you should show your interest to him in one way or another...maybe tell him that you want to be with him...then, leave the decision for him...he has to decide whether he wants to leave his girlfriend and be with you or not...
2006-08-10 05:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, let me tell you what he should do, I feel he need to make a decision to help your confusion.
If he's telling your sister he wants to be with you, he should take the steps to end his relationship with the present girlfriend so you both can get off to a good start.
Now, what you should do is make sure this relationship is what you truly want and don't try to break up this relationship of the
guy you want so bad and let him come to you naturally so you can know that he isn't confused as to what he wants.
You seem to have not ended the prior relationship on bad terms so I can understand how you continue to feel for him.
Now you went away for a long time and you fail to mention why which could have a barren on whether you should move on.
If you know your going away again for a long time, I suggest you allow him to be happy with someone else if you can't fully be there for him. Good luck!
2006-08-10 12:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You;ve done ur part...now you'd just have 2 see what he has to say for himself...
is he being fair to the other girl..
if he can dump the other girl as easy as that...is he trustworthy enough?
why did he get together with the other girl in the first place if it wasn't for love..
the best thing to do now is...IF he decides to let go of the other girl
both of u need 2 sit down and talk about it...
IF he doesn't..then cry for 2 nights..and have a big meal..get over it..
2006-08-10 12:52:47 · answer #3 · answered by ricks_ong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get back in touch with him and just spend time together. find out what the situation with his gf is. is it a serious relationship or something casual? if it's serious, you may have to wait the situation out and see what happens, but if not (esp since he's apparently interested back), i can't see how you wouldn't end up dating again. good luck!
2006-08-10 12:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stay away from him. He has a gf!
Should there come a time when he is no longer involved, then you can talk to him about getting back together. Until then, he is completely off limits.
2006-08-10 12:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to be sure he wants to be with you and if so, he should break it off with his gf. Take thins slow. Get to know each other again. Have some fun and then go for it.
2006-08-10 12:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wants to go back to him there is nothing can I do for u but think about it if he can leave is present girlfriend for his previous girlfriend may be one day he will leave you for another one.
2006-08-10 12:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by Fahim . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him u wana b wit him but that's not posibl rite now cuz he's in a relationship. Afta that it'll b up to him
2006-08-10 12:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Vypa69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think he's a player? If he's got a g/f and he wants to be with you without breaking up with his g/f then how do you know he won't do that to you?
2006-08-10 12:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by Big Mak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that u want to get together SO BAD, but ask him about his new g/f. If she's vicious, stay away from him.
2006-08-10 12:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋