this may not be true...[this is for the guys out there]?

Question

Is it true that men are only women's friend untill they can get in there pants? I was told this.

Answer 1

For some men, in some circumstances, yes. Not for all, and not even for the same ones under different circumstances.
But because there *are* predatory ones for whom that is going to be true, it does mean you need to exercise a certain amount of caution at first as you get to know people. Don't be too trusting at first; find out how reliable and trustworthy they are before going into risky situations (don't hop into his car alone on the first date, aim to meet him in a public place for lunch instead, for example).
But at the same time, once you *do* make friends with people, you'll find there are some men who are just good friends, who are loyal, trustworthy, and will stick by you through thick and thin, without ultimately trying to get into your pants. Generally, though, they're the exception, rather than the rule--so yes, approach men with some caution at first. ^_^;

Answer 2

Not true. In fact most women's pants would not fit a man. He would usually go to a department store to get into some pants that make him look appealing. He would then use that look to sleep with unsuspecting women.

Answer 3

Not really. It can happen, but it doesn't all the time. Males are interested in new females, its a biological drive from the need to keep the gene pool varied, so once a male has lets say gotten in he lady's pants that biological need has been satisfied and he moves on to another female. However, friendships can and do develop, too. As a guy I assure you, guys are astoundingly, amazingly shallow.

Answer 4

Not necessarliy. Just because we want to be your friend doesn't mean we want to get into your pants (although if you offer and you're hot, how can we refuse?). There are actually some guys out there that want more than that. They may be hard to find, but there are some out there. If you have enough self-respect (which it sounds like you do), then don't give in

Answer 5

Not true. I have a lot of female friends, which are quite beautiful, which I have no desire to have sex with.

However I do believe the idea that it is for the most part impossible for a man and women to be friends without at least one being attracted to the other.

Answer 6

Men have some women friends for that reason and some women friends for being just friends. If you can't tell the difference, assume the former.

Answer 7

Ahh., good question.

Basic living habits of men and women and purpose is ofcourse sex. with sex a relationship with men and women is complete.
Men are programmed to find mates reproduce. its all under their mind.

But there are times when men see women as mere friends.
Only friendship or a kind of affection exist.

But the baseline is men are by ..by nature programmed. many can outlive this though.

Answer 8

Not in every case.. ..some guys know how to have a normal friendship w/ a gal that doesn't lead to sex. But, for some guys, yes I'm sure they won't befriend a gal if he didn't want to eventually get some action off of her.

Answer 9

if it is an immature person that may be true. a lover can be a wonderful friend as well. some day when they are men, not boys it would be the case.

Answer 10

I think there is some truth to that, i think many guys have no interest in women other than that, however, not all guys are looking just for a piece either. sometimes, we too are looking for a relationship.