plese help!?

Question

My dad is a real jerk. He always hit's me and my brother and sister for no reason. I asked my mom to talk to him and she said "just stop making him mad". My mom would leave and take us but she can't aford it right now so we have to stay. what should i do?

PS. MY mom is studying to be a conciler, and all my relatives live in Canada

Answer 1

sorry to hear this..what a tuff one.the best thing you could probly do is try not to get under his feet and avoid him the best you can,im sure if you your sister and brother stick tgether your get throu it,how old are you?maybe catch your dad in a good mood and try and speak to him.maybe he believs giving you a strict upbringing will be best in the long run?he needs to realise its damaging you,is he aware how you feel?i wish you well,all the best

Answer 2

I had an abusive father growing up, and that *** hole died when I was young, so I was spared alot of pain. You could turn him in, but then you most likely would end up in foster care and he would think one of his kids did it anyway and beat you up some more. Take your mothers suggestion to heart, and try your best not to piss him off and just do your best to stay out of his way. Do you have another relative you could live with? Good luck.

Answer 3

Tell your mom that if she doesn't do something that you will start calling the police and telling your school staff when it happens; if she won't do something, the cops and the state will.

Start packing and expect to move in with a foster family; it might feel uncomfortable at first, but it will get better.

Good luck.

Answer 4

Talk 2 a social worker. U don't have 2 put up with anyone beating on u. Or call the police.

Answer 5

No one should live under any person whom is an ABUSER.. This must stop now. Call the Cop's and put a stop to it now.. Your city and state has services , that will help you and your family.. If you or your mother don't put a stop to this abuse , some day your father will kill you or someone in your family..

Answer 6

Call social services. Call the police. I don't think it's right that your mom is staying with him even though she can't afford it. There are assistance programs out there. Get out anyway you can. Go stay with another family member or go to a friend's house.

Answer 7

The best thing that you can do is sit tight and as soon as you are old enough and can make it on your own, move out. That's what I did. It's the best thing that you can do. Just mind your own business and stay clear of him, your mom doesn't sound to be helping matters by saying what she did.

Answer 8

he probably has a lover on the side and he feels you are holding him back because he loves you.gang up on him and beat the pure living hell out of him.use a stick but dont hit him in the head just his nuts once you hit dont stop till he begs it is self defence remember toedigger told you this.thats all im going to say about it

Answer 9

if you can stay away from him avoid him like go out and hang out with your homegirls or just stay in your room and lock the doors. and if he's in the kitchen don't go there wait till he's gone just stay away and for your other siblings do the same or go in one room like go to each others room and lock the doors and i agree it is child abuse so call the cops and get out it doesn't matter if you don't$$$$ have cash it's dangerouse that could be your life on the line so be very careful!!! god bless and praying for you

Answer 10

You need to call the cops. There is no reason for some man to hit there children. You don't need to put up with it. If you call the cops he should get put in jail. He has no right to be hitting ya'll.