I'am good looking young man but when around beautiful women I get scared. How do I get over my fear to speak and chat them up.
2006-08-10 05:28:11 · 12 answers · asked by Redbull 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just do it baby, we are waiting for you to come get us. Honestly, dont be shy. Just go for it.
2006-08-10 05:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.Trouble 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way. They're not necessarily going to walk up and talk to you. Your best bet to finding a girlfriend is to go up and talk to a girl. This is a trial and error stage, so there's gonna be some rejection as well as success. Just remember that it's worse for one person to not try than it is for them to try and be rejected (because eventually the person that does try will have a girlfriend).
If you still don't have the courage, try this:
If you're just hanging out or something and you see a girl you really like, but you don't know if you're brave enough to talk to her, act before your brain (and your fear) does and go talk to her. If you do this, you'll get used to talking to girls; and if you get her phone number or something, you'll have proved yourself wrong and will have made it less scary.
Good luck!
2006-08-10 05:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by c90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that sometimes they are just as scared as you are. When two compatible people meet it would be a shame if there was no follow up because they were both too scared to talk to one another. EVERYBODY has been rejected at one point or another...just because you think she is pretty doesn't put her above you. Just be who you are it's all you can do, if she doesn't like it, at least you can walk away knowing that you tried...no regrets.
2006-08-10 05:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to be comfortable around women is to make female friends - that way you know how to talk to us. But, I'm afraid that if you like someone you'll always get a little bit tongue tied but you've got absolutely nothing to lose - the worst they could do is say no!
Go for it mate!
2006-08-10 06:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by taschalou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all stand infront of mirror and assume you talking to a beautiful girl and try to say whatever you feel and think in your mind. This will give you some hope to gain confidence.Once you feel you are well confident then you can talk to girls.
2006-08-10 05:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem shy, maybe beautiful women arent the ideal kind to go for? maybe you need someone who YOU feel comfortable around - now im not saying to go out with someone who is ugly, im saying that looks arent everything and if your scared of beautiful women then maybe they arent what you should be looking for...
2006-08-10 07:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Polish your act and practice a lot on ugly women, you won't mind so much when they reject you.
Have fun:)
2006-08-10 05:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur good looking have confidence us girls like it but not too much cuz cockiness isnt attractive!nxt time ur out jus pick a girl u like and start talking hey whats de worst that can happen we dont bite(well not dat hard ha ha )
2006-08-10 06:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chicks dig confidence. if they reject you jsut be like alright later. dont make a big deal out of it. confidence = key
2006-08-10 05:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by spencer k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be scared ur confidence is low u need 2 bulid it up babes us woman dont bite take the bull by the horns and do it
2006-08-10 05:47:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋