When my ex bf dumped me I didn't feel heartbroken or anything and I don't know why.Did I really love him or was I using him? B/c I wanted to give my virginity away to him. Em I still a virgin even though I got fingered and my hynamen broke?
2006-08-10 05:24:11 · 14 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u just used him
2006-08-10 05:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by winnner_of_heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically you are still a virgin....because you haven't had intercourse. If you werent heartbroken when the relationship ended...that just means you obviously didn't love him....heck doesn't seem like you had any feelings at all. But truthfully thats not for me to say. You should know better than anyone.
2006-08-10 12:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wasn't right for you. Save your virginity for someone who you KNOW you have strong feelings for that respects and cares about you. You are still a virgin, hymens sometimes break for other reasons and if you have not had a penis in there, than you are still a virgin.
2006-08-10 12:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by Duck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a virgin until you have sex. I doubt your Hyman broke completely. You clearly didnt love him if you werent sad when you broke up. Give your virginity to someone you care about. Waiting is a good thing.
2006-08-10 12:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about him. You just didn't have a real relationship. Save your virginity for someone that really cares about you.
2006-08-10 14:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by c90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think either! I don't think you were using him! and i don't think you love him!
I think you are afraid to be alone! there for you will date whom ever so you don't have the "single" statuse... Most people are afraid to be alone but once they concor there fear!!! most the time they end up happy with someone who loves them and they love! and the marrage last a lot longer!
I would just focus on school if were you! And don't be in a hurry to lose it... Trust me i wish i would of waited for the love of my life!
Good luck sweetie!
2006-08-10 12:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, that is something we are all glad you shared on the Internet. I am sorry it could not have been a more meaningful moment for you and someone special.
2006-08-10 12:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks as if you loved him. Sometimes, it doesn't phase you intill later or maybe you just didn't truly care for him. Yes
2006-08-10 12:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
used him to take your virginity, bad girl!
2006-08-10 12:29:09 · answer #9 · answered by PurpleHaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noh, that was'nt tha real thing' u will know it girl' and believe me it didnt happen, I have just discovered sex afta 15 long years, & by the crickey its good!!!!!!!!
2006-08-10 12:32:03 · answer #10 · answered by anita s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋