What would you say if a guy came up to u in the club and introduced himself...talked with you for a while...and then when he "had to leave" said "we'll have to get together and do something sometime..." What would u say...or would you just take that as a statement?
2006-08-10 05:21:01 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I was interested, I would say "Sure, call me." If he asks for my number then he is serious, otherwise he's just trying to make a smooth exit.
2006-08-10 05:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by threesoares 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. If I saw him talking to a lot of other girls I would think he was just saying it or being a player.
If we spent time together that evening and he said that then I would say sue and give him my number (if I like him) and see what happens but I wouldnt sit around waiting for the phone to ring. Just play it out and see what would happen.
2006-08-10 05:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would take it as things must have went well between the two of you and he prolly likes you. Or he just would like to have a friend companion. What you should do is up to u on how you felt the conversation went and if you feel a friendship or maybe even a little more going on between you two. If you do go out and hang together maybe you should ask him what he is getting at? FRIENDS OR MORE????? Then make up your mind on what you wnat with him!
2006-08-10 05:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by lttlbt22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would just take it as a statement. You should say something more along the lines of "what are you doing this *friday* night? and if she says nothing say well ill give you a call maybe we can go out. If she says o im sorry im busy it ususally means she doset want to go out. Hope that answered your question
2006-08-10 05:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by kelly09620 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy seems interesting and attractive i would either agree to it and exchange digits or find out when and where we can meet.
if i really wasn't interested in spending any time with this guy, i would ignore the question with a smile or be straight up and say something like.. "it be nice but im married" or something like that.
2006-08-10 05:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by CALI GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd take it as a statement most likely but I know I wouldn't see him again. But if I took it the other way it would give me the right to defend myself
2006-08-10 05:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by K.L.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends... if you like the guy, he's leaving it out there as an open invitation. Kind of "feeling you out". It's his way of throwing it out there to see if you're interested. If you are then you should dig in deeper.
If you're not interested you can just smile and say "it was nice talking to you"
2006-08-10 05:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jules 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i were interested in him, I would tell him that sounded great and give him my phone number. If i weren't interested i would just take it as a statement and say something like "oh, okay...."
2006-08-10 05:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by glendonite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on what I picked up from our conversation. How I felt about him,what my gut feeling tells me. If I felt good about him I would say OK. Then leave it at that and wait for his response. On the other hand if I didn't feel right about him and his personality I would not have said anything or no thanks.
2006-08-10 05:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by Linda R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what kind of a guy he was, well i know you can't know that from one little chat but at least a first impression would help so if that impression was good you can give your No. but if not , just forget about him.
2006-08-10 05:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋