2006-08-10 05:17:33 · 13 answers · asked by rcpapyp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by keeping it real.. don't lead them on to think that it's something more.. establish this before u sleep w/that person of after the 1st time...
don't hang out, don't be on the phone like bf and gf, don't make plans together other than to sleep together..
make it clear that the p or d is good but that's all u want...
2006-08-10 05:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by Queen D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just say try not to do the friend with benefits thing. I started that with someone who became a very good friend, and at first it was great, but then I got emotionally attached and he didn't. Very awkward. Keep in mind that this situation happens to a lot of people that do this - after all, you're having good sex with someone who you think is cool.
If you are going to do itanyway, try your best to keep it short term and keep reiterating to the other person that you think of them as ONLY a friend and make sure that they think the same thing so that they don't get hurt, either. If you both aren't on the same page about the situation, then I'd suggest not doing it at all because someone will be hurt.
2006-08-10 12:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by Duck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of what anyone says. I think its almost impossible to just keep it "friends with benefits" feelings get involved. Keeping it real will only last so long.
2006-08-10 12:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by MizzVanity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN'T!!!!! It just never works that way! Eventually one person or the other wants more! I've had many ladies whom I've tried to keep as just friends after they made a first move on me to just be bed buddies. . . . .Eventually they all wanted to be more! I don't know if it was because they truly had fallen for me or if they were just memerized by the fact that I am an unbelievable sex god! I am a great guy but I think they became obsessed with my sexual talents. I think they felt that because I was sooo good in all ways that I must really really love them. However. . . a guy like me can be an absolute sex god without really loving the girl. I pride myself on being the best that I can be. . . and making the girl orgasm as many times as physically possible. Because of this many of my ladies felt I must be treating them extra special.. . . when . . in fact. . . a true sex god treats every lady special. . . Anyhow. . . good luck with your situation and keep on banging!
2006-08-10 12:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that is how your truly want to keep it, then make sure that....
1.) you are both under the same understanding of the relationship
2.) that your contact is merely of a sexual nature
3.) no "dates", just messing around
4.) cut the cord when it gets too close for comfort
5.)know that there is a time limit (eventually feelings will grow)
my friends with benefits is now my husband
2006-08-10 12:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by shasta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well just dont let ur feelings get involved but then thats kinda hard for u women jus b straight up with him n tell him u just wanna b friends with benefits nothin more and if he wants more then ur better off being jus friends thats all
2006-08-10 12:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do not get involved with them.
2006-08-10 12:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by hoboken134 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let ur feelings get involved. remember it's just a f*ck
2006-08-10 12:21:57 · answer #8 · answered by lots of luv carebear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy , find a friend who wants to do that
2006-08-10 12:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't do it cheating both of you what really want let it go
2006-08-10 12:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by denise m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋