My ex fiance and I were trying to work things out after we had broke up for a few months. Well in the mist of us trying to work things out he called me one day and told me that he could not be with me anymore and it was not going to work out. So out of the blue! Later I find out it was because he met some slut on myspace that asked him to swing with her. Later when she turned him down-he is now trying to get back with me again. We were with each other for 3 years. We were going to get married. Is some thing like that forgivable???
2006-08-10 04:57:42 · 16 answers · asked by Kim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know but when we were living with each other for 3 years he never cheated on me. Psh but I know you guys are right....
2006-08-10 05:07:03 · update #1
I know but when we were living with each other for 3 years he never cheated on me. Psh but I know you guys are right....
BUT since we were having problems and he was having his doubts about me does that really give him and excuse? Now its him swearing up and down how wrong he was and telling me how bad he wants things to work and wants to marry me one day.
2006-08-10 05:09:20 · update #2
he did not leave me. i acutally walked out on him.
2006-08-10 05:25:23 · update #3
NO, find someone true,you can do better if you look,i would never turn back, he does this now what will he do if your married to him,there is better out there,he will be the loser not you,
2006-08-10 05:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by tay3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to step back and look at this from a distance. Look at what he's done. He says he's interested again, and the SECOND he gets a chance to hook up with someone else, he dumps you again, until the other deal doesn't work out...then he wants you again all of a sudden. Translation: he just wants some, and you are ok until someone better comes along. You are just a convenience.
This guy's a total loser, and you are nuts to think about getting together with him again. He'll only dump you as soon as he finds someone else. Why would you want to do that again? He obviously isn't interested in committing to you...he broke off the engagement, right? Wake up. Go find someone else who cares about you... he obviously doesn't.
2006-08-10 05:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by answerman63 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that he was triing to have his cake and eat it too. If you give him another chance, chances are he will feal that he can do the same thing over and over.Pick another girl over you when it is convinient for him cause then he knows if it don't work out with the other person he always has you to fall back on until he meets another girl. The cycle will keep going. Just tell him you think its best to move on too.
After all, you were together for 3yrs. you should have been number 1, not second best cause the person he chose didn't want him.
2006-08-10 05:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by raindrop_33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes and no. If you really love him and be believe that he will not do that again then go for it. But on the other hand if he blew you off so easily for some cyberchick he met on myspace then he probably isn't that faithful. You have to weigh your options: write the pros and cons on a piece of paper, burn it and then follow your heart.
2006-08-10 05:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Chivalry says, "If it was another situation, I'd say yes. He is girl hopping, in this situation. Think about it. What if he sees someone else on myspace? He'll say it's not working out. Then if he gets dumped again, he'll try to come back to you. Do you see the vicious circle? Instead of being the doormat, pull the doormat from under his feet and knock him on his @$$."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-10 05:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that should move on but, it comes down to what u really want. Do u want to give him another chance? And lets say that u get back w/him and everything is good. R u gonna be able to look pass that, and not let it bother u......
2006-08-10 05:20:08 · answer #6 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally I would say give him a chance, but the way hie did it, he will clearly do it again. He doesnt seem to understand what a relationship is. You're too good for him
2006-08-10 05:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by aprilx4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't give him another chance if he was so eager to hook up with some random girl for a fling. It shows you where you rank with him. I'd just do my best to cut my loses and move on.
2006-08-10 05:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by sandberg42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. not at all. you were going to get married and then he suddenly broke up, it means he doesn't love you. don't completely forgive him but remain his friend. may be he really is sorry and needs you,but not let him take you for granted.
2006-08-10 05:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by ansh g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck NO. dont give him no chances. tell him this " i wanted to go out wit u, but dont even ask me out again
2006-08-10 05:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋