My guy friend wants me to call him but im too shy too how do i get over that? help?

Question

i want to call him but im just really nervous and i wont know what to say.

Answer 1

dial and tell him that you are soo shy and are wondering if he knows how to get over that

Answer 2

Realize that guys are just as nervous as women. He too may be thinking, "I wish I had the nerve to call, but I don't know what to say." How about, "Hello, want to get to know each other better?"

Answer 3

Try and write some questions down about what you could talk about: school, sports, hobbies, plans for the future, whatever you like to do. Being shy is ok. Just remember that people are all the same.

Answer 4

I was the same way and it kept me from dating for many years. The easiest way to talk to someone is to ask them questions about themself. People, especially guys, love to talk about themselves. Also start with a shared experience that you can both talk about easily, like school, a popular rock group, or movie.

Maybe practice on someone else, a friend, brother or cousin first to gain some confidence.

Answer 5

I deal with the same nervousness frequently. Best thing you can do is discipline yourself to dial the number, even if it goes bad. And if it does go poorly on the phone, still be proud of yourself for actually calling.

Answer 6

I would start by saying hello I called you like you said, I hope that I am not bothering you and I am sure the conversation will go from there

Answer 7

If he wants to speak to you let him make the first call. The one who makes the call has to strike up a conversation first...lol

Answer 8

u should call him! when u call the words will go by themselves!just dont worry!he is a simple man like u! and i know that u are much better!

Answer 9

You get over by over coming your fears by just calling him after all he does want you to call him so that should motivate you to want to do it.

Answer 10

call. say hi. what are you doing. and then to make it real easy just meet up in person. say you dont like talking on the phone and ask him to meet you.then everything will be easy from there.