I have a boyfriend over the internet, he is the best thing that ever happened to me, he loves me so much and i love him, but he doesnt know what i look like ive known him for over a year and a half. I have some really hot pictures of me that im planning to send him, but im afraid he wont like me. so today i started breaking up with him, because i dont want him to break up with me cause of what i look like. I dont know what to do. even though he says he will like me no matter what, i have a hard time believeing him since he asked if i weighed 98 pounds, and its not even about that.. What should i do?? should i break up with him or take a chance? Any suggestions???
2006-08-10 04:35:15 · 24 answers · asked by Skye 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what he looks like but, he doesnt know what i look like. We talk everyday for 10 hours. almost. sometimes
2006-08-10 05:11:18 · update #1
baby girl, show it to him. "so what" tell yourself. what's the worst thing could happened to you? he'll say no. that would be it. look, baby girl, take a chance, you want him to know you; not just a figment of his imagination of what you look like. if you want this relationship to succeed, then be true to yourself. show him the real you.
2006-08-10 04:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How is it that he can "love you" when he doesn't even know what you look like? The only thing he is in love with is the fantasy of you. If you had pictures you should've sent them when this "relationship" was just beginning.
I've read that a woman knows within the first 5 seconds of meeting a man whether or not she'll sleep with him, the same can be said for men. So, if you send these pictures and there is something about you that he doesn't like...he's not gonna like it, same can be said for pictures he's sent to you.
The fact that you've not sent any pictures, probably already has him questioning how attractive you are, so if you are as "hot" as you say you are, it will come as a pleasant surprise to the horror stories he's already build up in his own imagination.
But to break up with him now with leave him wondering why and ultimately deciding that you were not as pretty as you said after all. Just send him the pictures and play it out win or lose.
2006-08-10 05:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by club_jer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Can't Believe That The Two Of You Have Not Met In Person Yet!!!! I think that you should stop being so insecure about your self! He has talked with you, and got to know you on line for Almost two years now! What! Are you afraid that if he sees you that you will chase him away? Looks is not everything! How do you know if you are going to like the way that he looks? I'm sorry honey but this sounds totally stupid & childish to me! Why don't you send him these Hot pictures of your self? If your looks are more important to him then your personality, Then You Should Dump Him!!!!!
2006-08-10 05:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are if he has been your boyfriend over the internet that long, and you feel the same way about each other.....that looks won't matter.
I may be different but the hottest woman in the World can be ugly to me if her soul is ugly, and just the opposite too. If there is an unattractive woman out there, but her soul is beautiful....she becomes beautiful. And of course you have some in the middle too.
Don't be so hard on yourself. If he loves you uncondtionally, looks will not matter.
2006-08-10 04:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the chance girl! Believe him when he says looks do not matter. I was in the same boat you are. I met my husband over the net and we never knew what each other looked like until we met face to face. We didn't care how each other looked either because we were so in love. We have been married for 10 happy years now. Love is blind.
2006-08-10 04:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if you break up w/him your losing him and if he doesnt like what you look like and he breaks up w/you you should want to be w/a guy like that anyway. If he says he loves you thats more than just looks its personality. If he loves your persaonlity your looks shouldnt matter. Take a chance cuz if you dont you will be thinking to yourself "what if" for a long time...everything happens for a reason ;)
2006-08-10 04:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by Keyon F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say take a chance. if he truly loves you, like you say he does, he wont see your faulty points if you have any at all. Every girl is different. practically no one has a model body, and guys just need to get over that. some guys are shallower then other guys but if he is the right guy, it wont matter what you look like. he'll love you for you... hope this helped!
2006-08-10 04:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by **♥Rockstar♥** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you 2 shouldnt have let the relationship gone this far with out even seeing pics of each other. Send each other pics of each other, and if he doesnt like you for who you are, then that means he isnt right for you. Cause if he really did love you, looks wouldnt matter.
2006-08-10 04:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth did you wait so long before you decided to send him a picture of yourself? Do you have insecurties about how you think others will perceive your looks? I would suggest that in the future, if you go this route again, don't be affraid to show a man a picture of yourself.
2006-08-10 04:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont break up with him unles you get a b/f that you can see in person. internet relationships are not real to me. how can you... wel ya know. but yea send him the pictures and everything would be great. im sure he cant wait to see the girl hes been in a relationship for so long. id be pissed if i were him and you havent sent them yet. send him the damn pics!
2006-08-10 04:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think as besides the undeniable fact that u want to in straightforward words proceed to be acquaintances, because for sure she nonetheless has some unresolved themes with her ex. there is not any because in ruining a reliable friendship. merely let each thing run that's own course. If that's meant to happen it will happen.
2016-11-23 19:20:55 · answer #11 · answered by speck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋