You just have to get through what ever it is, I always try to remember what my dear Mother told me, "God will not put on you anymore then he knows you can handle" and she was right, but a time or two I thought he was getting a little pushy. May life always treat you good.
2006-08-10 04:41:35
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answered by Granny 1 7
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You have to do a number of things.
1. Analyze the problem. Be brutaly honest with yourself.
2. Recognize if the problem can be overcome or repaired. Not all problems can be fixed.
3. If it can be overcome or repaired, sit down and come up with a plan of action to correct what needs corrected. This may at times require outside help: Family, Friends, Doctors, Lawyers, ect. and may take days weeks or years.
4. Stick to the plan but also re-evaluate the plan on a reasonable time period. Recognize when it's not working and when you need to try something different.
5. If you are religious, then you may want to include praying about the issue or discussing with a religious leader to help you with counseling if needed. If not religous then you may want to discuss with family, friends or a support group depending on the nature of the difficulty.
6. Realize that you are not the only one who makes mistakes or has bad things happen, others have gone through the same thing and there is usually someone who can help.
But a big part of this is being honest with yourself. If you don't start there nothing you do will ever help.
Best of Luck
2006-08-10 04:48:07
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answered by John 6
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By looking for positive solutions.
Whenever I have a difficulty arise in my life that I think I will benefit from talking it over with a good trustful friend then I will tackle it that way.
Sometimes, I just wait it out and the difficulty passes and solves its self.
I know one thing it doesn't help to rant and rave about it, because it's still there after you wear yourself out!
Sometimes, I even, (now get this), write the problem down on paper! Yes! That's what I do. Then it is right before me and I can look at it, ponder it, and say "hummmmmmmm! that doesn't look so bad now that I have written it out!" And you know what? It didn't! In this case it didn't, but that is only in this case.
2006-08-10 05:28:12
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answered by December Princess 4
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just gotta keep going. I have heart failure, my left leg was amputated about 4 years ago, my right leg needs surgery that could cause it's loss. I had cancer and surgery for it, and have more now. My daughter is a drug addict (recovering nicely thank you).
You just can let it get to you. I still enjoy life and most days are great. Got a great Jeep to take me anywhere I cant walk to.
Im only 47, but heck been living on borrowed time for 10 years.
2006-08-10 04:42:04
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answered by Anonymous
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By just living day to day. You must understand that once something has happened you can not change the past. You can only change the future and the present. Be positive no matter how hard it is, just remember that you control your future, not drugs sex, money, or anyone else. YOU. It is never easy but it can happen just keep moving on holding strong and staying positive. Good luck
2006-08-10 04:49:17
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answered by Anonymous
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You have to keep going no matter what difficulties you face. Life will always be full of difficult times, but always remember each difficult moment has precious moments too.
2006-08-10 05:20:08
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answered by Anonymous
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Life is Journey their will be many hurdles if you handle it properly you will easily reach the destination .
Try to accept them because they are the part of the life and try to sort them out by thinking properly.
2006-08-13 23:23:57
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answered by NANI 3
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Trust my self and never allow others to pot you down, all the time remember that '' YES YOU CAN ''
♥
2006-08-10 04:48:05
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answered by Clark794 4
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you just do, best thing is don't give up lifes one big lesson and you learn from your mistakes thats why it's ok to make them.
2006-08-10 04:42:39
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answered by rainbow 2
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Keep trying, never give up.
2006-08-10 04:38:09
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answered by jimel71898 4
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