2006-08-10 04:32:02 · 12 answers · asked by xeval 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Community Service
change him into what?
2006-08-10 04:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by sadie_oyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that you cannot change anyone. Their personality, their lifestyle, everything about them is up to them, not you. Just be the best person you can be and if you can't deal with something about your friend, either talk to them and work it out, get over it, or find a new friend. But you can't change people!
2006-08-10 05:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jylsamynne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Socrates said it best...Know Thyself! There is no way anyone can change anyone, except SELF! If you change, then a friend will see it and may like the example. Otherwise be a good friend and accept others' as they are, not as you wish them to be.
2006-08-10 04:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by jmmevolve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change him/her into what?
You can't change another person; you can only change yourself to be more accepting of what you see as his/her flaws.
2006-08-10 04:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by Word Game Addict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt try to change your friend, accept them for who they are. if they dont want to be changed then you shouldnt try to change them, they know who they are and how they wanna live. if they wanna change, let them worry about that.
2006-08-10 04:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u must give advice, advise your friend but then tell her "of course it is your decision totally.' then your friend may not be irritated that u gave advice LOL
2006-08-10 04:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what... what are you asking? You really don't make any sense and we have no idea what the question is...
If you don't like someone don't be friends anymore.
2006-08-10 04:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by hullo? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck..people can only change themselves, not others...but the best way to change is to break patterns....
2006-08-10 04:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by susuze2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not try to change your friend but to accept him or her they we she or he is.
2006-08-10 04:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by neshama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to get a life
2006-08-10 04:35:47 · answer #10 · answered by X-Rider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋