i wear glasses, play a guitar, work on cars, play video games, and have a little acne problem..................i even drive a classic automobile what is wrong?????
2006-08-10 04:21:21 · 26 answers · asked by yankee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever heard that confidence is sexy? It sounds to me that you lack confidence. If you feel you aren't sexy enough lose the glasses, work out, dress a little nicer, and go out and be more social. Work on making yourself happy and people will find you more attractive when you are happy and confident.
2006-08-10 04:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by blonde0001-999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can try to get rid of your glasses, maybe contact lens or laser. The acne can be covered and the classic is not important. Dress up nice, like nice looking guys in tv. And first of all, act as if u are really gorgeous, and believe it. Dont say you play video games, girls dont like that. U can say that you play the guitar.
When u talk to a girl, dont act needy, or desperate, act as if you have all the time of the world, and as if you re doing a favor by speaking with her. If you show that your are a selfconfident guy, girls will throw themselves at your feet. Be funny, but in a Bill Murray way, doing jokes without laughing. An be cocky. Pretty girls love that (dont be so cocky with common girls, but hey, who cares about them, go right to the pretty ones).
Follow my advice, it works. I know that.
2006-08-10 11:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a dermatologist to fix the acne. Try to get a band going with the guitar. Instead of isolating yourself with video games, go out and do stuff where women are likely to be. Get out of your comfort zone. Join a gym. Woman are attracted to men that take care of themselves, have confidence, and have a positive attitude.
2006-08-11 21:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by timespiral 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the problem your indoors to much. Your involved in yourself. Get out and take your guitar to the park. Play a little melody (hoping it's acoustic). If your good maybe someone will spark an interest. You need to stop playing them video games and get out more often. She won't be coming to your house to look for you you need to go out and find her. Also Hygiene is a must so I hope your no grease monkey. Good Luck I hope I helped.
2006-08-10 11:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong except that your worry about appealing to women is driving them away; they can tell if you are anxious, afraid or overly needy.
As you mature, spend more time enjoying life and less time 'trying' to land a g/f; if you're out doing stuff outdoors, you will meet more women and probably do so doing things they like to do also; it's a matter of time that you will meet one with similar interests, which is why volunteer groups, parks, libraries and other public places are good for meeting people.
Taking care of your appearance might help, not knowing anything else - groom yourself as if you're going on a date whenever you go out and it might help.
2006-08-10 11:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like confidence. I think it's cool that you play guitar and work on cars. The classic car is sweet, too! Be proud of who you are. If they can't appreciate you, then they aren't worth it.
2006-08-10 11:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by agentm006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude... wait for ur Ms Right to come up.. rather then looking at all women yaar.... Wait for the one who loves u and loves all the thing that u do.. and of course i wud suggest you to be with the one who love u rather than with the one whom u like.....
and by the way who told u that that wearing glasses and playing guitar and working on cars make women go for that guy... yeah of course the choices varies.. but most of time its the attitude and manners of the guy that makes a women go crazy.... i wish u gud luck
2006-08-10 11:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by priya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of my guy friends were like you. There is nothing wrong with them, just not all girls are attracted. Although my guy friends they still lived with Mom and Dad and didn't have a job, etc. They were not out to find ways to improve themselves or to find activities and participate where they could meet other people. They were just happy staying home and doing nothing.
2006-08-10 11:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on proactiv to get rid of the acne and Im sure you'll be a major catch. You can get it for alot cheaper on ebay, Really all you need is the lotion it works amazing wonders. See my face- its perfect because of proactiv. Good luck!
2006-08-10 11:26:09 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't found the right one yet. Try Proactiv for your acne and get contacts. Go out and have fun.
2006-08-10 11:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋