Me and my ex broke up a while ago but satyed really good friends. She got a new b/f who treats her liek crap and is an a$$. Even as just friends i would still text her goodmorning almost every morning so she felt loved cuz her b/f wasnt doin his job. About 2 months ago I stopped w/the goodmornings cuz i was tired of being on the back burner to her b/f and I wanted her feel like what it would be like w/o me in her life and try to make her see what she got rid of. So my ex stopped talking to me cuz i stopped saying goodmorning and being there for her everyday. I know she thinks of me and misses me cuz i talk to her sister but the problem is im growing weak. I want to talk to her but idk if i should cuz idk if she has realized yet what she got rid of. Do i keep waiting for her to break and contact or do i start talking to her again? What do i do?
2006-08-10 04:20:25 · 9 answers · asked by Keyon F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't talk to her! she must understand your price!
2006-08-10 04:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you should tell her straight forward what you feel about her. Tell her you will give her a certain time to decide, when the deadline is up and she still doesn't give you an anwer, well my friend.....it is time to keep going with your life and find someone else, because that means she doesn't know what she wants, she is confused and maybe she is waiting for the other guy to change and she has u as a back up to make her feel good, well.....don't be that guy, when you start backing up she will feel like...hey what's going on!!! she will realize....but I can advise you to keep going on with your life...mabe u have missed a lot just waiting for her...remember.....have strenght to accept the things u can't change, the courage to change the things u can, and the wisdom to know the difference....
good luck!!
2006-08-10 11:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by Luna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar thing with my x-girlfriend and like you I let her know I was there for her as well !! What happened to me was YES she would realize what she let go and we would get back together again! Unfortunately she would decide she wanted or needed someone else and it would be the same thing again Would get hurt and she would be happy --- I finally had to stop being there for her and had to let her stand on her own! It was and even now it's hard sometimes -- but as long as she knew she could always fall back on me she could not, would not, or just didn't work on her cu rent affair (same as when she was with me - thinking she could keep coming and going because I CARED ABOUT HER)! I had to stop it because I could no longer take being hurt again (I was hurt more and more each time) and I realized as long as she felt I would always take her back she would continue to USE MY HEART!!! Yes -- my advice for both your own and her -- LET HER GO!!!!!!
2006-08-10 11:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by xxx69forall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Do what you feel is right because you feel it not because someone else wants you to. That was really sweet of you to txt her every morning and I don't think she appreciated it. Geeze I don't even do that to my boyfriend and we're going out. Maybe being friends with her would be best for you since she seems blind to the fact that you sound like a great guy. Find someone out there who appreciates you and the little things. I think that you should think about whether or not you want to talk to her and what's best for you.
2006-08-10 11:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your broken up and she has another bf..she is moving on...you should move on too...something wasn't right in that relationship...instead of focusing on getting back into the relationship, focus on fixing what was unacceptable and if your paths should meet again this won't be something that could interfere with a continued romance or any others you may encounter.
2006-08-10 11:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u talk to her sister get her sister to tell her that she spoke to you that way she wil be thinking about you. then if she calls you dont answer, just wait like an hour than call her back so u dont look desperate.
2006-08-10 11:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by its all about me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i answered this last week
U NEED TO TELL HER HOW U FEEL ECSP IF SHE JUMPS IN UR BED....SHES GIVING U SIGNALS....
as her once and for all....if she says i have a bf say bye...it seems as though she is really weak...she'll come around but u need to back off
2006-08-10 11:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bro find ur friends and find a bar and drink her away and maybe u will find someone else
2006-08-10 11:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by Wiseguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep waiting........ it seems to be working........ if u give her the best of both worlds she will never get rid of him
2006-08-10 11:25:32 · answer #9 · answered by sexyandsingle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋