OK I have a bit of a dilemma. I am pretty skinny. I am about 6ft tall and I weigh about 160lbs. I have absolutely no booty at all. My pants sag in the back and my undies (boxer briefs...for those who want to know...wink, wink) often show. When I say show I mean the back can go to bout the top of ma crack...u cant see it though, just the undies. One of my friends say that it is gross but I cannot do much about it. I have bought smaller jeans but the back will not stay up no matter what I do...Is that a turnoff to girls? Will this hinder my search for a woman? Tell me watcha think...
2006-08-10 04:07:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm people I look like I have tied a belt around a bolt of jean matierial when I wear belts...It isnt too good of a look when your jeans start to look like a single pant leg...lol
2006-08-10 04:14:14 · update #1
Damn people u r actin like im some kinda dumb@ss...I know what a belt is...and whats wrong with boxerbriefs? they make me look more muscular when thats all im wearin...wink
2006-08-10 04:17:01 · update #2
wow im starting to think that it was a bad question....i am definately not thuggish either...im bout as "preppy" as they get...
2006-08-10 04:27:15 · update #3
It is ok. I totally understand your dilemma. I am pretty thin too. You most probably are wearing the wrong waist size of pants. I used to have the same problem because I would buy size 30 waist but really I needed a 28 waist. Now I buy 28 and it is all good. You may want to look into getting your waist fitted by someone so you know what the proper waist size for you is and then you can buy it. Even if you do have the correct waist size it is always good to wear a belt anyway.
Also don't worry about a little underwear showing. That happens to all of us. And who cares if they are boxer briefs? Boxer briefs are really cool (I wear them and I love them). Good luck man.
To fully answer your question, I'm not sure if it is a turnoff to girls, I'm not a girl. But I can say that I hate it when people sag (intentionally), if it just happens a little then that is fine. It's bound to happen a little bit during the day.
2006-08-10 13:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by someone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That look is sloppy and will preclude you from attracting a certain type of woman (i.e. - classy...). But with the 'boxers showing look' you absolutely will attract attention from a specific sector of girls out there...
As a 40 year old man (6ft tall and 165lbs) who would never go out of the house with my underware showing, let me ask you this...
What about a BELT??
2006-08-10 04:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by crazyotto65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends on the woman you are trying to attract. Some women like them thugged out looking men with their pants sagging. But then there are women that like a clean neat man that doesn't have his *** hanging out. So I guess it all depends on what type of woman you are trying to attracted but just to be safe just buy a belt 5 cash that's all they cost. Good luck with your search for a woman !!!!!
2006-08-10 04:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have such a problem with pants not fitting, why don't you just go buy a belt? I know it is a fashion statement to have your pants hanging halfway off your bootie, but it is the most rediculous thing men have ever put themselves through. In fact, a young man was killed in Orlando, Florida because of his fashion choice. As he was running from police, he started to lose his pants. He reached down to pull them up, the police thought he was reaching for a gun and they shot him down. And to answer your question, yes, it is a turn-off.
2006-08-10 04:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by Emm 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely a turn-off unless you look like the Abercrombie Fitch guy. I know it seems like a novel idea - but what about a belt?
2006-08-10 04:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To some girls it is a turn off, but there is a saying that guys who wear their pants like that has been to jail or they are gay.
2006-08-10 04:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as they arent whitey tighteys it is sexy. Oh and pick boxers you know someone would want to look at, something cute or with a cool design. If its a solid color it will say basically that you are oring.
2006-08-10 04:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...it certainly turns me off. But it aint ur fault. Just use a belt, sweety.
2006-08-10 04:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by cookie_recipe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a store where they can tailor ur pants and wear a belt
2006-08-10 04:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by Sayde M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would go with boxers if i was a guy and i knew that my underwear would show because for whatever reason boxers seem to be more acceptable to show .... like with girls ifi know my panties are going to show i make sure i am wearing a thong and not grannie panties .....just a thought
2006-08-10 04:10:39 · answer #10 · answered by sexyandsingle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋