2006-08-10 04:00:27 · 17 answers · asked by Joseph B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By pay phone, from your new home in a foreign country!
2006-08-10 04:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by B J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely NOT like that!! The next thing depends on if the child is yours. If so then you need to man up and take responsibility for your actions. Become part of the minority(men who ACTUALLY take care of their children)whether in a relationship with this woman or not. If the child isnt yours, then be honest with her. But do it nicely. Just let her know that you arent ready to take on the responsibility of raising someone else's child. That you have things you need to accomplish. Nothing hurts a woman more than being rejected by someone she cares about. But being pregnant can make this an even more delicate issue.
If she's lucky she will eventually find a man that will be able to love and accept both her, and her child. My b/f has stepped in and over the past year has acted as more of a father than my kids' biological one. He's not ready to be a fulltime dad, but he loves me and my kids, so he's doing the best that he can. Everyday is a learning experience. I got very lucky. Most men just dont want to deal with a woman that has children. They cant handle being second in their girl's eyes. I hope she gets as lucky as me.
2006-08-10 11:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by ~Gigglz~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you got her preganat you have to deal with her for 18 years, its called child support, just so you know. I'm sure she doesn't like acting the way she is eaither. Her hormons are running wild right now.
2006-08-10 11:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your the father then you deal with it just as she has to deal with it. YOu took the good now you have to take the bad. You can't only be around for the good times and think you can leave when the going gets tough. suck it up and be a man and stand by your LADY. It does get better in time. So hang in there and in the long run you will be happy you did
2006-08-10 11:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to these women. If you're not feelin' the girl anymore, share your feelings w/ her, get some closure and move on from there.
I'm not sure why anyone would think that staying in a relationship w/ someone you DON'T want to deal w/ is a GOOD thing.
Idiots...
2006-08-10 11:14:13 · answer #5 · answered by Ain't Not Cool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no good way to tell her. Whether you're the father or not, the fact that you don't want to deal with her anymore is not going to sit well with her, no matter what you say. I suggest that you tell her and deal with the consequences.
2006-08-10 11:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by writeroftheyear1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to deal with her anymore ?What a shame!
It was you who used her and made her pregnant and now you don't want her ?
We all have stages in life. Our childhood, adolescence and parenthood.
You made her a parent and took away a part of her life and now you don't want anything to do with her or your child ?
She was used and thrown away by you. What a shame ! I feel so sorry for her !!!
2006-08-10 11:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by Bachelor boy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's pregnant with your child, sorry about your luck, but you're stuck, Chuck. Otherwise, talk to her about whatever it is that is causing you to want to bail. Pregnant women need all the emotional support they can get, so why not stick around.
2006-08-10 11:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by OOO! I know! I know! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well lucky her. You had your fun and now you don't want any part of the consequences. Typical male. It will probably be best for her anyway. You sound like a real LOSER.
2006-08-10 11:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by Xena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Joseph, the best way to deal with this situation is to committ suicide in front of her, you silly sack of ****.
2006-08-10 11:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋