What would you do if your best friend(thats a boy)asked you out?What would you do.And your not sure you feel that way about him.But maby.
2006-08-10 03:52:04 · 31 answers · asked by Fashion gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is oyur best friend, give it a shot. If you don't feel that way with him, then just let him know you're uncomfortable, say it now before it'll break his heart.
2006-08-10 03:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by redd_apples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I were best friends. The first time he asked me out I told him no. He excepted it and we stayed friends for a while. Then it was obvious that I liked him so he asked me out again. 3 years later, we're married and have a baby. It can be a good thing, but don't say yes if you're not sure. Wait and see how you really feel.
2006-08-10 10:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave it. No matter how many people say try, it won't work and you will never be the same again if you do go out. You have a better chance of winning the lottery. If you are going to do it then good luck you are braver than I and obviously have plenty of best friends to choose from.
2006-08-10 10:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by Noodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you let him know you aren't sure about your feelings and if you decide to pursue it take things slow until you are more sure about how you feel. In my experience guys who are already your friend before dating make some of the best boyfriends. My only concern would be making sure that if things don't work out that you don't lose the friendship, you both need to consider that possibility if you do decide to get togther.
2006-08-10 11:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by Caroline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if hes really close say no cause you always want to be friends!!!! I know about this cause i have ton of guy friends and they will always be my friend but not my bf!!! well i was ask out from my best friend that's a guy so i did and it made our friendship go down the drain. then like a year later my other best friend that's a guy ask me out and were still friends and we been friends for 6 years... its hard but i would say no
2006-08-10 11:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out & see how things go. It's nice to be lovers with someone u're best friends with but things might be different when u guys decide to be on a different field.
Well, just test the waters first & decide whether you really have feelings for him! Goodluck!
2006-08-10 10:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by excusememiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the thing, if your already "bestfriends" then you have already gone out and done things right? So what is the benefit of "going out" now? Is it for sex? Hmmm Let me think. "BINGO! ding ding ding ding ding tell the man what he has won!" Becareful young lady, if you want to pursue an intimate relationship with your friend then go ahead with the "date" if you don't then let him down easy, either way your relationship is about to change. GOODLUCK
2006-08-10 11:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Papa Dino 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong of going out with your bestfriend as long as there is no any other partner involve. If you feel the same way, then go for it. If not go still and tell him what you really felt.
2006-08-10 10:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go out with him because he is your friend. But if things get serious, take it slow because you don't want to mess up your relationship if something happens. But stay friends no matter what. Good friends are hard to come by.
2006-08-10 10:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try. Best friends may make the best mates. If you were married, you would want your spouse to be your best friend.
2006-08-10 11:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by toomuchtime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋