2006-08-10 03:37:09 · 48 answers · asked by pudgey_buddy09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't cheat or it'll blow up in your face, nevertheless it's 'wrong' to do it in the first place!
2006-08-10 03:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, i think you don't know what's called real love? a true/real love can only occur on 1 person...i believe the new guy u had was only an infatuation..on the other hand, the other guy shd be your better choice bcoz not many r/s can last a gd 3 yrs! many couples end their r/s probably 0.5 or less than 1.5 yrs. Do treasure the right candidate and don't jump into another new r/s or commitment with your eye closed! if the 3 yr old guy wasn't that great, i believe you'd not hang out with him for tat long rite? let your mind & heart do the calculations....but if you really think the new guy seems more suitable for you, it's your choice...gd luck!
2006-08-10 03:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as You have cheated on your long term guy Id say that relationship was pretty screwed anyway. The fact that you have been gutless enough to keep cheating on him for over a month says that you cant possibly love him your jsut holding onto him as he is safe. He deserves better and I think you should shack up with the new guy until you get bored of him and go off with someone else like the little vile trollop you are.
2006-08-10 03:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by Octavius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a terrible project. Sorry you're having to pass with the aid of all this. in the starting up i imagine you would possibly want to confer with someone, anybody, about stuff. conserving it interior is under no circumstances a good component, it will make you ill (like you stated, dropping weight etc) Do you imagine you ought to talk with your coach about stuff, no longer go into too a lot component if you're no longer gentle doing that, yet a minimum of get some off your chest. also he will then comprehend why you're dropping weight etc, and could no longer suspect drugs. do not enable it come between you and your lady friend because it variety of feels as in spite of the undeniable fact that you particularly take care of one yet another, and that she'll be there for you whatever. enable her in with what's happening it will make you experience extra effective. yet particularly the basis of the problem is you dad dishonest. He needs to variety his project out asap. If he's conscious of you comprehend, then that is purely incorrect that he leaves it impressive. confer with him and tell him how a lot that is effecting you. that is a few thing a baby might want to under no circumstances might want to take care of. i particularly desire issues seem up for you, you would possibly want to be playing your children, no longer coping with all of this
2016-11-29 20:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by basinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do they feel about you? Do they know that the other existed? Obviously you were dating one first then cheated with the second one - most of the time people cheat because the person they are with isn't meeting certains needs. Maybe you don't really love the first guy as much as you think you do. Take some time away from both and think about it. Good luck.
2006-08-10 03:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by volchick2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this same problem i was in love with my husband and the guy i was cheating on him with i was with my husband for 7 years and the guy for 1 year and i was a fool and let my husband now i am sitting at home all alone do you get the picture it not good to cheat because in the long run you are the one getting hurt. But I hope everything works out for you.
2006-08-10 03:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by Berry Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about what you want your future to be like. Which one will stand by you through thick and thin? Romantic love will fade in time, so you must have a foundation to build on for a lasting relationship.
I would choose the guy who has concrete plans, not the one who just wants to have fun.
2006-08-10 03:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by Madeamove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THE KEY QUESTION IS WHICH one do you love the most? and which one is more compatable with you (the most like you)? Opposites dont attract for more than a year usually. If opposites stay together it is usually cuz they are both givers and full of compromise. Astrology books can help with compatability. I wish people would tell their sign in questions. Then I could help a little more. When you choose which one, then lose the other one and stick with the best one for you. Good luck.
2006-08-10 03:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
are u sure u really know the one u've been involved w/ for 3 mons?????? evevn if you've had problems w/ the guy u've been w/ for 3 yrs, u must realize what u go through makes a relationship stronger. don't throw away something or someone you have history with.because if so the new one may shock u w/ some **** u never thought he was capable of.TRUST!!!! i've been there. good luck
2006-08-10 03:43:17 · answer #9 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don`t think you could be in love with both of them and I think you should end at least one relationship because you are risking losing both. decide who you like the best and don`t treat them the way you wouldn`t be like to be treated. What would YOU do if you have a boyfriend and he has 2 GIRLfriends?!
2006-08-10 03:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by Villa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for starters you obviously cant be inlove with both otherwise you wouldnt have cheated on your partner of 3 years if u really loved him, your sombody who doesnt take love seriously and your messing with 2 heads at the moment, maybe you get kicks out of it but those to men probly have deep feelings wich your just playing around with, my advice for you is stop being a hoe.
2006-08-10 03:42:21 · answer #11 · answered by lil_meex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋