today i saw her kissing another guy at the mall and she didnt even say hi when i passed her she told her friend that i am too nice and she hates nice guys. i really love her should i change and be a bad guy and ask tell her i want her back she is the only girl i want
2006-08-10 03:35:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mr. Chivalry says, "Find a woman whom will accept you for who you are, one that will appreciate a gentleman. There is so much hypocrisy in this world, that the right guy is wrong. You'll find your true soulmate. Just be patient."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-10 03:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously doesn't love you as much as you love her. Dont ever change the way you are. Do you really want to be with someone, who can dump you so easily after you proposed and then get over you so easily and start dating again?She doesn't care about you and if you decide not to take my advice and become a bad guy,maybe she will be with you(for a while) and then you will feel like crap for pretending to be someone you're not or she gets tired of bad guys and want good guys again. You will run in circles after this girl and she will make you so unhappy. If someone doesn't want to be with you and except you the way you are, they are not even worth your time. Try your best to forget about her(I know its hard) and move on. She is not meant for you - The person who is meant for you, will appreciate you for the way you are. Face it.
2006-08-10 03:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jade22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man dude..
She dumped u because she didnt love u anymore and as what u said..she hates nice guys..So, you jz being you..No reason to be a bad guy jz to get her back when she dun even love u..
And if u did get her back cause you're a bad guy and she love your "bad guy" and not you. If both of u get married , it will not last very long..before you get divorce and regrets and probably with a baby on the way..then might thinking of abortion or something like that..So, better dont take the risks..The world is big dude.
2006-08-10 03:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by UrbanSaints 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello stuck!,
I'm sorry for what happened to you. I know that this seems like a big tragedy in your life, but perhaps it's really a blessing in disguise. A lot of guys will be married to a woman before either the wife or him discovers that they made a big mistake.
How old are you? You sound like you don't really understand women quite yet, like you haven't really dated much. You also sound far too young to be getting married anyway. Guys really shouldn't get married until they are at least 25 and preferably 30 years old. You need to live a little bit and get some of those wild oats out of your system before settling down with one person.
You really need to get out and get more experiences. You need to see more girls and see what they're really like. Don't even consider settling down with one woman until you've dated at least 20 women and maybe had sex with at least five or six (and probably more).
Finally, you need to build up your personal income and get your life in order before even considering marrying anybody. Marriage has rotten odds of lasting and the biggest problems with marriage is money problems. I know that this sounds cold, but in the long run, you will be more happily married if you follow this advice. I wish you the best of luck. Happy hunting.
--Rick
PS: Also, if you live in an area where they broadcast the Tom Leykis radio show, you should listen to that. He has a weekday radio talk show for men, from 3:00 - 7:00 p.m. Pacific Standard time, but it's broadcast across the country. Try to listen to this for more help. Check out his web site here:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
2006-08-10 04:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say you want her back, you aren't being a bad guy. Judging from your previous questions, you've been on a very bumpy ride and it's time to cut your losses. Nice guys do come last but you are better off being a bad guy to some new girl. This one may come back to you or not, but you must not wait for it. Because if you do, she never will.
2006-08-10 03:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to leave, my friend. There's nothing wrong with being a nice guy. Let her go find someone that will beat her up later in life and then she'll be looking for a "nice" guy.
2006-08-10 03:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by yamaha bassman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you and her werent dating long at all this sounds like some teen age love but hey if your a nice guy tell me why do you want a female like that give over her because she got over you otherwise if she ever comes back its not ever going to be the same
2006-08-10 03:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by yayo_upin_disbitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't want her back after she's cheated on you and ignores you in public. Are you sure she's your girl? How old are you guys? Why would you want someone who says she hates you? Don't be "bad" to please her, just find someone else that appreciates a guy that treats her well.
2006-08-10 03:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by m&m_manic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone change you, I understand how you feel but move on with you life because if you do go after her, she will never respect you. Trust me, I was in your shoes at a point and got seriously hurt.
2006-08-10 03:42:42 · answer #9 · answered by wallyade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't change who you are and why would you. If she can't take you for you then it would never work out in the long run. She did you a favor because she seems to be a game player and no one should settle for that.
2006-08-10 03:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋