Glad you are making this a priority. I think you should make school a succesful situation. Nobody wants to do something they are bad at. Do cartwheels when something good happens and work out the bad stuff. Brag to your friends about your child's successes while he is in the room, and never talk of his struggles to others when he is near. You can create what teachers call a "self-fulfulling prophecy".
If your child is having trouble paying attention, you may want to decrease TV time. I noticed that the kids who watched more TV had a harder time attending for extended amounts of time. I think it's because they get used to paying attention only when there are lights and bells and whistles and animation. Children need to learn to control their little bodies and minds without the crutch of a TV. Good luck!
2006-08-10 03:28:59
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answered by HD 3
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That is probably one of the tuffest things to do. The key isn't to motivate them, though. They have to find their own motivation. There has to be something in it for them and even though it can be the most boring thing in the world, somehow it has to turn into something fun.
I heard the results of a study that came out recently saying kids with short attention spans or diagnosed ADHD perform better in school and on school work if they are chewing gum at while they work.
Some kids don't do well at school because they may be lagging behind the other students, or have sight or hearing problems. Might want to check that out. Tutoring in basic skills and some instruction in good study habits from someone besides you allows you to continue being the good guy. Highly praise him when he does well. Encourage him when he's feeling overwhelmed.
2006-08-10 03:22:15
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answered by auld mom 4
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How old is he? What has his teacher said?
Show interest in what he is doing. Sit down and go through his backpack with him each night. Find out what the best and worst things in his day were. Talk about the papers he brings home. Check his homework each day and be sure to sign off on his homework log.
If he is getting bored because the classwork is too easy, talk to his teacher. Find out if he can go to another classroom for enrichment or if the teacher can give him some more difficult work. If the other kids are just copying spelling words, can he write sentences instead? Is there a gifted program that he could be tested for to see if it would be a better fit for him?
Find ways to relate his school work to real life things that he likes to do or is interested in.
If you can, volunteer in his school or in his classroom. Be sure to attend after school hours functions like literacy night, science night, bookfairs, school programs, parent teacher conferences, etc.
2006-08-10 03:25:52
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answered by momma2mingbu 7
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good grades= attractiveness to an outstanding college= $$= warm chicks (or regardless of you're into) a sprint making plans is going a protracted way. In an extremely short 5 years you will (with a bit of luck) be stepping right into an excellent college and commence development the existence you like. you need to unquestionably be triggered to get the superb grades you will get by using fact it turns right into a habit. fulfillment takes a lot of artwork and is a habit besides. BQ1: specific, he has a bedtime yet he's in simple terms 2. BQ2: i think of that little ones ought to have a bedtime. would not remember if that's a school night or summertime or what ever. Having a recurring keeps you on superb suited of your sport. in simple terms by using fact you're actually not at school would not propose you shouldn't be in superb suited style to have a relaxing day or do some thing efficient. i'm in touch in infrequent relaxing nights (like sleepovers or events) however the super majority of nights a toddler ought to be in mattress at bedtime.
2016-10-01 21:46:58
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answered by ? 4
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you didn't say how old, but i'd get him tested for two things: ADD and IQ. the short attention span may be either from chemical imbalance or boredom with easy subjects. but if he says ADD, get a 2nd opinion; some doc's just throw that diagnosis around at everything.
also, pay a visit to the school, see if he's seated by troublemakers or pretty girls, both a distraction. ask his teacher for ideas; she may have noticed something you didn't. your interest in her opinions may also generate a motivation to pay more attention to your son.
2006-08-10 03:22:29
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answered by Anonymous
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How old is he? I guess that doesn't really matter. First & foremost-stay involved. Everyday, check the back pack and review and question things that he may have learned. Stay in contact with teachers and visit the school often (volunteer work) because if he sees that you have an interest it makes it easier for him to keep his.
Good luck.
2006-08-10 03:19:11
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answered by momof3 3
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Age and other factors must be considered. If this is a problem at school a psychiatrist should evaluate him for attention deficit disorder.
2006-08-10 03:37:37
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answered by Anonymous
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