he's not the right guy. We all work in the same org. but different branches. He seems to talk about the future with me. He seems to be caring than all the guy I have moved out with but don't know if he's Mr Right.
2006-08-10 03:01:54 · 23 answers · asked by sweet81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's too soon to tell, I think you are moving too fast. Slow down
2006-08-10 03:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be a rebound - BUT, it might be worth some time. You said that be is more caring then any other guy you've been with. Well, none of those other relationships worked out. Maybe you're dating the wrong kind of guys. Try dating a "Nice Guy" for a change. You might find out you like it. I've found that women tend to date a ton of "Bad Boys" until they realise that the "Nice Guys" are the keepers.
2006-08-10 03:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Nemo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question. Do you always end up with guys that treat you like dirt? Now that you have one that treats you right, it is not as exciting for you, right?
You will know if it is right when the time comes. Do not rush things. But you may just have to face the possibility that you latched on to all the bad boys to keep from settling down. Those bad boys may be fun for a fling, but if you want a serious long term committed relationship, you need someone who truly values you and treats you right.
2006-08-10 03:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your experiencing some rebound effects...of course he doesn't feel like the right guy because he isn't the guy you expected this feeling to be with...Keep your eyes wide open...don't just recognize the things that are better about this guy but acknowledge the indifferent things about him too...going from one relationship right into another, one tends to skip some levels of relationship growth because your used to being at a certain level from your previous relationship...its important to have a complete and accurate assessment of this guy before you say he is Mr. Right in every way...good luck.
2006-08-10 03:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When me and my x husband split up... this happened to me, cept the working at same place part. I went on a semi blind date with this guy about a month and a half after I kicked my X outta my house. At first I didnt think too much of it, Dinner, movies, good sex... thats it. Then he started getting serious, but very slowly. At first I started thinking, there is no way this is the guy for me, But I enjoyed the company alot, and we always seemed to have fun, and now 3 years later, we are happily married. Sometimes love finds you in the weirdest ways... If hes being a jerk, Dump him, If you think its possibly just you cuz of your over flow of emotions.... Give it a chance. It might be real love! Good luck.
2006-08-10 03:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say rebound usually don't last, only for half a month or so...but I don't know.
I'm having a rebound right now, and I love him more than the other guy I went out with!
...but it seems like you are the one who's not interested in the situation...
I'll just say, if you don't find real love inside of you in this one month, just have fun with this guy for now, and start looking for Mr. Right soon!!
2006-08-10 03:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way u'll know if he's mr. right is if u give him a chance.. if ur not ready for another commitment then let him know.. there is nothing wrong w/dating and keeping ur options open instead of putting all ur eggs in one basket or the wrong basket..
be upfront and honest w/him cause right now it sounds like u jumped the gun by sleeping w/this guy.. sounds like u want this guy to be like the guy ur no longer with...
2006-08-10 03:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just met the guy! Both of you need to slow it down a bit and stop thinking about the future. Just enjoy each others company and let things develop without worrying about "what if's"
2006-08-10 03:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
f u just got out of a relationship u should take it slow. dont get too seriuos too fast. it sounds like he was a rebound guy. dont move out with this guy. take ur time and play the field. mr right will find u!
2006-08-10 03:05:51 · answer #9 · answered by Mike Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need time by yourself. He may be Mr. Right but you might not be ready for another relationship. Make sure you do for you. Tell him take it slower. See where it goes.
2006-08-10 03:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by SunshineSparkles1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down your head is still spinning about the old relationship, you dont need to worry about Mr.Right. Start thinking about you, call some friends, go out.
2006-08-10 03:06:19 · answer #11 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋