If he loves me and wants to be with me like he says why does he talk online to other women and portray himself as single. This is really starting to piss me off cause I don't want to share him with someone else and the idea of him sharing info with women he doesnt even know (over the internet) is bothering me. He doesn't know that I know he has been talking to women online. So how do I go about getting him to stop and focus on me??? HELP!
2006-08-10 02:34:53 · 24 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you might just want to talk to him about it,he might just be having fun talking with these women and if not i believe in communication it helps pour out the mind.you shouldn't just be focused on him focusing on you but trust also matters here.a relationship without trust and dedication is heartaching.talk it out.you could browse with him and asides from that is he free talking with you.he might just need someone to talk to thats why he chats on line {they probably take him for who he is}
2006-08-10 02:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by christy o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me before. Dump him, he's looking for someone better and keeping you around until he finds them. He's a player and probably already cheating. Don't let him make the decision, dump him and be single. He will NEVER committ to just you and you can't make him. There's also no point in you telling him that you know he's online with other women. Just tell him that the relationship is not what you want, if he asks why..tell him the truth. Tell him you don't want a bf who talks to other women online and portrays himself as single. Good luck!
2006-08-10 09:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating on you, if only emotionally right now (at least that you know of). And once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater.
But how do you know what he's doing on-line? Have you snooped where you shouldn't have? Or has someone told you he's doing this? In which case, how do you know if it's true?
Come clean and talk to him about this. If he's doing it, then he's a liar (telling other women he's single) and a cheat. Dump him!
2006-08-10 09:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you can't MAKE him stop. He should stop if he loves you. Guess what, He has not stopped yet. So whats that mean? Sounds as to me that he dont love you. He will only keep doing this behide your back. Thats what he is doing now. If he didnt stop on his own then dont try and make him. You need to move on and find someone that will respect you and be true to you. Life is to short to live this way. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck
2006-08-10 09:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you are going through, my boyfriend puts that he is single on every website that he has, we have been dating since May. It really frustrates me, he also has many female friends. I trust him that when he says that he loves me, he means it. You should confront him about it, ask him why he is talking to women online, and saying that he is single, and ask him if he really wants to be with you.
2006-08-10 09:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by mrs_herman452 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to stop. Tell him, you knew about it and it doesn't make you happy, and you don't appreciate. If he doesn't stop. That means he's not your type of guy. He's interested in sharing his body (info.), and not keeping it for that one special person, that might be you, then your probably better of with out him. Find someone who will give you want you want in everything.
2006-08-10 09:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by dillonsbabygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he doesn't care about your relationship as much as you do. Truly, I do. If he's going online and saying he's single to meet women, then I doubt he's faithful to you. I would leave him if I were you and find someone elses. <3 :) Good luck.
2006-08-10 09:39:00 · answer #7 · answered by Slippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend, I am also a man, in some way I understand your partner. Men usually does that thing if he is not in away serious in that relation. But he might also have a problem about you. You might miss to do a thing for him.
But the best way to end up this problem of yours, talk to him and let both of you solve this one, there are no other way to end this problem easily but this.
2006-08-10 09:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by a comedian yet very sensous man. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make up an ID for the instant messanger h e usues and see how much info he gives away and if tries to meet u dump his a$$ cuz lots a guys will do that.....but if its nuthin serious then i dont know...i wouldnt like it either u could just tell him u know and dont like it and if he doesnt quit u'll leave..but good luck in what ever u do..
2006-08-10 09:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by dixie_gurl872005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's spending to much time on the internet and you would like him to spend more time with you. Ask him who he is chatting with and if they are more important. Him chatting with other women is disrespectful to you. And if he finds chatting with women is more important then you then I would end the relationship. You deserve better. Good Luck.
2006-08-10 09:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋