thats the e mail my ex boyfriend sent me minute's after saying on the phone how much he wants misses me :
"Our time together in Greece was incredible, and I
wanted to hold on to what we shared, so- when you told me you were in
love and talked about being in a committed relationship, I wanted to
believe I was ready, but I agreed prematurely.
Although I care a great deal for you, it's too early for me to be
ready to be in a committed relationship.
As difficult as it is for me to write this, it would be unfair for
you to travel so far without understanding how I feel. I understand
completely if you are uncomfortable visiting under these
circumstances. If you're still up for coming, I'm sure we will have a
great adventure traveling, playing, eating, and getting to know each
other better."
IS HE CRAZY?UP UNTIL LAST NIGHT HE WAS COUNTING THE DAYS FOR ME TO GO SEE HIM. I HAVE THE TICKETS I WAS GONNA GO IN 2 WEEKS. AND I WAS GONNA MOVE THERE IN DECEMBER
2006-08-10 02:32:45 · 15 answers · asked by deina1981 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes he is crazy, and he probably found someone new. People generally don't just change their minds that quickly. And even if he did do you really want to waste your time with someone who does not know what they want? or someone who will do a complete 360 in a matter of minutes. You deserve better than that. I say forget him and sell your tickets. You can do better.
2006-08-10 02:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just being honest with you which i find a good thing. I mean, imagine if he kept quiet about not being ready to committ and you find out later in life when you have already moved half way across the world to be with him. I dont think he is a psycho. He is being honest with you, something many men and women alike are'nt always capable of being.
It sounds like both of you have viewed this relationship differently. He just wants to enjoy the relationship with somebody that he cares for and you are looking to settle down, once he realised this he opened up to you. Its a good thing he did because now you know where you stand. I know it hurts because you viewed your relationship with him differently but girl - atleast you know where you stand and dont have to get your heart seriously broken.
Goodluck though and i hope happiness comes to you and that all works out.
2006-08-10 02:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jellybaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to hurt your feelings or be disrespectful but WAKE UP! He obviously had reality set in that you are really coming to see him for a visit and he is scared to death. He seems very mature and he wrote it with grace, as not to hurt your feelings. I, on the other hand, would not go there and consider the so called relationship a done deal. Why spend the money for a trip when there's plenty of great guys where you are already! :)))
2006-08-10 02:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by shizzlechit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he's got a good head on him and was really trying to respect you, albeit a little late seeing as how you bought the tickets. I don't think he's crazy, but don't expect anything other than sex and fun from him. Whatever you do, don't move out there. It will only mean heartache for you.
2006-08-10 02:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by rachelinjapan24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least he told you now and not five years in to it. Go see him and have fun. You know he will tell you the truth even if it hurts you! Besides sounds a little like cold feet to me. He wants to get to know you better ......go show him he cant live with out you! Or just stay home.
2006-08-10 02:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing he's a prime candidate for commitment phobia. Count your blessings and move on, he saved you lots of heartache in the future.
2006-08-10 02:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. provide him to stay in my position and performance him wiped clean making particular the curtains are closed to shop the paparazzi away. 2. turn him down and punch Joe contained in the face. 3. i'll guard the youngsters with each and every thing i have were given. that is area of my company because their father meant a lot to me.
2016-11-29 20:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doenst sound crazy. he does however sound like he's NOT the man for u. don't go all the way there to be his toy. try to get a refund on ur tickets and start looking for a new man
2006-08-10 02:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by Mike Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's telling you one of two things:
1. He's changed his mind about you and he no longer wants to be exculusive with you.
2. You totally misunderstood his actions/words and he is trying to tell you that he only wants to be friends--and maybe even friends with benefits....
I would totally throw out moving there....
2006-08-10 02:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No He not psycho.He just telling you how he feels and want you to know.At least he told you before you went to see him,At least he was honest instead of using you.
2006-08-10 02:42:48 · answer #10 · answered by Nails 4 breakfast,tacks 4 snacks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋