what are your views in dating a 34 yrs old single mother of 2, how would u feel about meeting the kids and how long do u think u should be dating before u meet the kids???
2006-08-10 02:29:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wouldn't bother me, wait until you are serious for the sake of the kids!
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2006-08-11 21:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by traffic to website, earn money, 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd date a single mother of two. I am currently dating a single mother of one and it didn't even factor into the equation that she had kids. Personally, we left it a while until I met her son, and only then did I meet him by accident when we bumped into each other on her way back from school and she invited me for coffee.
Personally, I think you should probably be dating before your partner meets the kids. Otherwise it becomes a bit more complicated. Also, if they won't date you without meeting your kids, what does that say about them?
2006-08-10 02:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by Jack Creighton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably wouldn't date a mother of 2, because I've already tried something like this and it didn't turn out well.
I ended up supporting the kids financially and being responsible for their discipline. And I did it as well as I could. But then my mother-in-law started to make life-changing decisions for the kids in spite of my disagreement. And I found out that I only had the responsibilities of a father but not any rights.
When you are not the natural parent of the kids, then people often don't respect your parental relationship with them. And that kind of thing can easily lead to conflict and divorce.
2006-08-10 03:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dated a single mother about seven years ago, we waited about a month before she introduced him to me to make sure we were at least serious about dating.
The sad ending to that was we moved in together, and I found out she was insanely jealous and physically abusive towards me. I still loved her son, but could no longer live with her, so the separation was hard on the boy and me.
But yeah, if he's dating you, he's dating the kids two, so make them a part of it.
2006-08-10 02:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by B J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should be upfront about the kids however I don't think they should be introduced until you feel that the relationship is ready for that commitment. Hey now a days there are alot of single mothers and single fathers who need love too. There is someone for everyone
2006-08-10 02:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by PHILLYGUY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I really love the woman and kids are well educated, it´s not a problem for me. I would like to meet the kids as soon as possible.
2006-08-10 02:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by Bruce W. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but you didn't mention YOUR age so if she's 34 I guess that's ok for you. As far as the children, I feel she shouldn't introduce you into their lives until she knows you will be a good part of their lives, hence - not screwing up the children's heads. Good luck
2006-08-10 02:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by shizzlechit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a girlfriend that had 2 kids im great with kids... i would love to meet kids.. until you see what kinda person i am if u think ill b good with them.. wich i will so whenever u think u r ready.. how old r your kids???
2006-08-10 03:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by brandon b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like ther person than it won't matter if they have kids, i would say after 2 months if it's starting 2 get serious than he should meet the kids.
2006-08-10 02:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does age matter? You have to like the person 1st.
Kids, is it uncommon now a days.
There is no timetable, u meet the kids when ur both ready, 4 their sanity......
2006-08-10 02:34:32 · answer #11 · answered by Mephisto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋