after a hurtful relationship wit my ex, this new guy says he loves me and would do anything for me but i am afraid he would do me the same thing my ex did me like cheat. but he is a nice guy to be around but how would u feel if u wonna do sumtin but afraid to because u might get hurt. WAT SHOULD I DO should i get with him or leave him in the dark like i promised myself i would.
2006-08-10 02:21:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him a chance. yea i know its a risk but life is a risk. just don't put your heart out there too much. tell him to prove you that he really care/love you. and his not just saying it just to get your hope you. i feel your pain because i went through it. remember this words are words and anyone could said it wit out meaning it also action same way. you will know if he meaning. just take your time and if he willing to wait than you know he telling the truth.
2006-08-10 02:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by La Dueña 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how long have you known this guy for? And secondly, how old are you? If your a young teenager, then there is no such thing as love yet. Have fun with relationships and don't take them that seriously. Take them as lessons so you can be a stronger partner when you are mature enough to love.
However, if your a blossuming woman than you may be at your peek of exploring relationships. Again, how long have you known this guy that says he loves you? The only way that what this guy is saying is true is if you two have known each other for a long period of time. And I mean a really long time. It'll be a smart idea to take it slowly, make sure that he has the right intentions.
Also, it's normal to be scared of getting hurt. But you can't live life like that. Sure every once in a while you'll get hurt. But hopefully you learn from those situations and you'll take those lessons and implement them into future situations.
Good luck.
2006-08-10 09:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by yayachicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejecting a guy before you have any concrete reason to think he's going to hurt you is stupid. You are just letting your ex ruin your future relationships. If you honestly think this guy is nice and fun to be around, then take him. If he does hurt you you'll move on. But just maybe he may turn out to be really as wonderful as you hope. It's not worth throwing that away over a little heartbreak.
Hearts heal, but a good chance doesn't knock twice.
2006-08-10 09:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want pleasure for the moment then find someone else because chances are if this guy is telling you that he is already in love with you, he might just be a freaky jason stalker. Be on alert. Find a guy that doesn't want strings if you are not ready for a relationship because he seems like his is.
2006-08-10 09:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by Lina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep going into relationships with the thought that your going to get hurt, It will never work. Go with the flow, If its going to happen, its going to happen. Pick up the pieces and move forward. If you need to, Take a break, but its not fair to judge every other man by the mistakes another man made.
2006-08-10 09:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone ever see the start of this relationship?
2006-08-10 09:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah leave him in the dark. Meet me in the light. :)
2006-08-10 19:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
touch n try !!! u will get right ans cause for this matter ur best judge i think... best of luck
2006-08-10 09:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by forplay_afterplay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u should trust him
2006-08-10 09:28:32 · answer #9 · answered by waz here 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wit? wat? I think I may see the problem.
2006-08-10 09:33:24 · answer #10 · answered by mark r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋