my son is 16 almost 17 and has refused to turn himself in he wants to come home the state dosent want to deal with him any more and wants to get him out of their custody is there a chance we could have him back even with our rights being terminated we signed our rights over on our own due to the fact the srs(dhs) said if we didnt they could take all 4 boys from us if there was ever a report made to them. I need help my son is in the streets and Im worried for him
2006-08-10 02:09:02 · 11 answers · asked by angeleyes4you32 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
more info to question: my son ia ADHD, ODD. BI POLAR these are all hard to handle just one and a time he has all 3 togather my son wants to come home and be with his family but i cant just get him and run off if i got to jail my husband (his father) has had a storke and i am his care giver and i have 3 other kids or i would let him come home and suffer the repercusions of doing so my son and i want to do this legaly
2006-08-10 02:44:44 · update #1
why would you sign your rights as a parent over to the state and give up on your child in the first place?
2006-08-10 02:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
wow ,your messed up,no matter what he did you turned your back on him and gave your rights away,do you know how much hate he has for you now,hes 16 he can be emancipated and be considered an adult,even so your foul,you cant ba a parent dont have kids,your kids are what you make them,and learn mostly from you,maybe its you the dhs should have taken from your kids,really really wrong of you,he couldnt of been that bad if you want him back so in the parenting department you get a negative 20,good job dummy
2006-08-10 09:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by mesmokyweed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanted the boy home you would not have asked such a question...you would have welcomed him back and let the authorities make the next move...you must have your reasons to have given up your rights and not allowed him back...this is a case for child services to handle...unfortunately it will get worse before it gets better.
2006-08-10 09:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go back and wait until he is 17 at 17 if he has a stable job and proof that he can take care of himself as in car and home he can go to court and they will let him move out on his own provided they are allowed to check in on him after a year has passed he will be completely free to come and live with you
and don't listen to others who said you abandoned him, it was either lose him , or all of your boys, you did the rite thing
2006-08-10 09:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i would never gave my rights up on my children,if i had to i would work two jobs to support my kids. and what cause him to go to foster care in the first place. i guess i just loves kids so much that i don't understand why other people just signs there rights away on there kids, or just give them away like they are nothing, because there is some people that just can't have kids on there own it is really sad for them, then other people just have them and give them away
2006-08-10 09:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by jenniferrosa_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's messed up! If it was me I would say screw the state and go get my boy! Even if it means moving out of state you could not keep my kids from me!
2006-08-10 09:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by Blue W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact a local attorney with family court experience.
2006-08-10 09:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by Securegeek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes at the ages of 16 then can move anywhere they like even back home with u
2006-08-10 09:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by OceanBlue 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he will make things bad for you if you let him come home you may loose your other kids.If you signed over your right your rights are gone for ever.
2006-08-10 10:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were worried for him, you wouldn't have signed him over and abandoned him in the first place.
2006-08-10 09:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by miketorse 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋