Have you considered that maybe it's where you're looking that's wrong? Try looking in places where nice guys will be like quiet pubs, libraries, book clubs, wine clubs. If you go to clubs, loub pubs, or these "speed dating" things, you'll only ever meet assholes. Also, have you tried looking at work? Then you have the advantage that you know what the person is like. Plus flirting at work makes the day go so much faster!
2006-08-10 02:28:48
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answered by Jack Creighton 2
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All the nice guys get hurt and turn into B********
I was a nice guy (and I hope I still am in some ways), but we get walked over, trampled on and spat out.
Its an unfortunate fact that most nice guys have to toughen up and be a bit more bad otherwise the same thing happens over and over again. This leaves women like yourself in a position where you cant find the kind of man you want because someone else (or maybe you have) turned them into arseholes.
I dont mean to sound bitter but its a sad fact of life that being nice gets you absolutely no where.
I recommend you look for a real man. Someone who is not a wuss, but not an arsehole either, someone who is a good balance of both and someone who appreciates people. i would like to think i am one of those people. But finding a good woman is just as hard as finding a good man.....its all down to chance.
2006-08-10 02:22:41
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answered by Dave 1
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many times, a unmarried mom with a foul-boy toddler-daddy has discovered her lesson and are available to her senses. Now she's finding for an outstanding guy who can come to her (and her teenagers') rescue. in case you do not desire to be that rescuer, you do not ought to. there isn't something incorrect with you finding out you do not desire to be a step-dad. wait and notice. finally you will meet the superb suited childless woman. There rather are women who want an outstanding guy for his very own sake, not in basic terms to help out with the mess another guy left at the back of.
2016-10-01 21:45:23
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answered by ? 4
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Women arnt attracted to nice guys so either we become assholes or we avoid social interactions. If woment werent so attracted to the bad *** or cool type and get with more nice guys the world would turn into a differnt place.
2006-08-10 02:18:04
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answered by trl_666 4
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Thats Cheshire for you.
2006-08-10 02:12:30
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answered by Anonymous
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My ears perked up when I read the question... until I got to "Cheshire". Sorry. Can't help you I'm afraid.
2006-08-10 02:13:57
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answered by Fragile Rock 5
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u r right. Poor women I don't blame u.
In the last few yrs, since u ve become more emancipated, all guys have become less confident, shy or gay ....
Don't worry and keep searching I am sure u'll find some guy
2006-08-10 02:21:13
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answered by itablok 2
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Hi there.
I am single guy..
I can just say , can we be friends? Can we know each others?
I am a simple guy, I want to have my own family, kids, home etc.
My yahoo id is: man_2216
I am online now.
2006-08-10 02:20:16
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answered by dinesh 1
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Im nice. Although I live in Stoke so perhaps too far away.
2006-08-10 02:15:11
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answered by Anonymous
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One day you will meet the right guy.I met mine totally unexpected.
Goodluck
2006-08-10 02:15:00
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answered by Ollie 7
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