Okay since this will sound so juvenile I'll preface this with that we are both in our early 20's.
So I've been seeing this guy for about a month, and things have been taking off rather well, and moving semi-quick between the two of us. He knows that I am the kind of person to speak my mind, and as so far it's worked out well. I decided the other night that I would tell him that I am beginning to have more serious feelings than a regular 'seeing a guy for a month', so that way if he knows that's not where its going he can let me down now before I get hurt.
I was pretty confident that he felt the same from the signs that he was giving me, we live 30-45 min away from each other and see one another all the time, i sleep over every once and a while, met his mom already, he calls me when he's upset ect...(again not normal for one month)
He texted me last night to tell me that his phone was busted and the speaker was out so we were texting.
to be continued because apparently i ramble
2006-08-10 01:56:27 · 6 answers · asked by attila 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay so I sent him a message telling him, and told him basically I had feelings, and just wanted him to know so if I am a whim he can let me go without my getting hurt.
He never responded and since his phone is broken.. no point in calling.
It IS possible he fell asleep but doubtful, because it was a little early for him to be sleeping...
Thoughts?
2006-08-10 01:57:50 · update #1
Wait until tomorrow to find out. You are old enough to be patient.
If he is not asleep, then he is analyzing his feelings and thinking about what to say. No one uses text messaging to say anything deep or profound (bad medium for this) so he probably wants to see you face to face before commenting.
You asked a heavy question, so he is taking his time to answer because he wants to give you an accurate response.
2006-08-10 02:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait - don't jump with both feet on this one. He may want to discuss this with you in person - & perhaps face to face would have been the best way to spring it on him, anyhow. If he backs wwwaaayyy off, I'd say you freaked him a little - you may need to follow up in person & if he's not feeling the same, you'll have to decide if you want to continue as you have been, knowing you are investing more in it emotionally than he is - or you may choose to walk away. See what he says before leaping to conclusions - all that jumping & leaping could be hard on a girl, ya know?? Take care, good luck & hang in there - you know what you want, go for it!!!!
2006-08-10 02:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It merely signifies that he's not over you and nonetheless needs you back, he's making an attempt each thing, calling you at the same time as lower than the impression of alcohol, attempting to make you jealous, putting you off a boyfriend etc. once you've not any pastime in him, then make him attentive to this and recommend him to flow on. no longer doing this can make him worse till you get really indignant with him and fall out. i desire issues workout for you and he receives the message, reliable success.
2016-11-23 19:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by vogt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is exactly why these types of conversations should not be done by text messaging. Nothing replaces face to face converstion, especially on important topics, like feelings for each other. Nothing can replace face to face, seeing the body language, etc.
2006-08-10 02:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by Steven K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to conclusions.
A wait of 24 hours may be productive.
2006-08-10 02:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not easy, not knowing....Give it a little time----
2006-08-10 02:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by outback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋