Why do a lot of people (women, actually) simulate orgasms? Just to make a partner think that he's doing everything well and get no pleasure yourself? But where's the point in making love at all, in this case and pretending to your own self that you liked it ? Why not choosing the best and fair option - discuss the problem with a partner?
2006-08-10 01:47:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never simulated myself. If i am in the wrong mood i just tell my partner that we should do another time and i'm not feeling very sexy today. So i'm just curious where's the point.
2006-08-10 01:59:50 · update #1
wow i bet ur stuck up.... but a good point
2006-08-10 01:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by slocklin0931 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I tell ya, I think I was the victim of this from time to time. Then a lesbian friend gave me some pointers on how to go down.......simulating is ancient history now.
Rather for me, if she dosn't have a multiple O then I'm dissapointed
A basic tip is to press your mouth up and make motions like as if you were talking. Sorry I'm answering a different Q and now you have made me ho.rny! You swine!
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2006-08-10 02:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by ding diddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-04 06:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by falls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its been my expirience that sum people cant hear u say that your not doin a good job,you gotta admit it cud be quite a blow to da ego,i guess it depends on how u say it.but i think that women do it to either get it over with or to not hurt their feelings and try to ease it in in conversation sum how.but i agree it shud be discussed with your partner right away.and just so u know women can be not so good either.
2006-08-10 01:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she knows she isn't going to have one, either because she never does or because he's lousy in bed, and she wants him to feel good because she doesn't want to upset the relationship. Men can be very defensive about their sexual performance. Why have sex at all? To keep her man, of course. It's not all about the sex for most women, anyway.
2006-08-10 01:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, certainly its very easy to do so... but i've been there and it makes no good at all. U just feel bad because you have not been satisfied, and worse because you lied to someone you have feelings for.
i would certainly tell him what i like and how i like it in order to give me multiple orgasms if possible.
2006-08-10 01:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A question for the ages. Discuss and give pointers as to what is working and what is not.
Why oh why indeed!
2006-08-10 01:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I agree with u totally.
They stimulate it because they feel insecure..worried that the partner might leave them.
2006-08-18 01:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by D33P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because alot of women realise men arent good in bed. guys like penetration, girls like clit pleasure. doing both at the same tim is hard for a guy. get your climax out of the way first, then let him have his way with you.
2006-08-10 02:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by yeah well 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know how to answer this one cause i have never faked in my life i believe that if the sex is bad the relationship will be next so i have no problem telling my man how i want it
2006-08-10 01:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by the ole ball and chain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..i thought that i'm the only one who do simulate orgasms
2006-08-10 01:51:51 · answer #11 · answered by dina_sas80 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋