I want to have my first sex give me what does& what dont's?

Answer 1

Do's:

1. With someone you love and trust with your life, since you will be exposing yourself to the possibility of HIV/AIDS and STDs.
2. With someone who has tested negative for all HIV/AIDS and STDs.
3. Ensure the man properly wears a condom.
4. Realize that having sex means the possibility of conception.
5. Relax, go slow, enjoy.

Don'ts:

1. Have sex until you are emotionally able to handle the consequences of your actions.
2. Have sex because you feel pressured to, by anyone.
3. Have sex because everyone else is.
4. Have sex to keep a man.
5. Have sex with someone you do not have a deep emotional attachment to and commitment from.

Answer 2

You know maybe she cant go to her mom and ask this. Have a little understanding, not all of us have family that is really there for us at times like this. Sweetie all I can tell you is what I have told the rest of my young friends, for one be sure that the one your planning on doing it with is someone that you actually love and hopefully he loves you too. Second always always use a rubber no matter what people tell you. You can get pregnant and you can get a disease. Dont let nobody tell you different. I would suggest you going to one of your parents and letting them know you want to be put on birth control but it seems you cant be open and honest with them so scratch that. But there will be times that you feel like just one time without a rubber wont hurt, THATS NOT TRUE! Dont do it unless your ready to take on the financial, physical, and emotional responsibility of a baby. And girl that isnt as easy as you may think for a young teenage mother and possibly a single teenage mother because more than likely you will suddenly be single when you tell him your pregnant. Thats all the advice I can give you. I hope you listen because I had this same talk with my little sister and she thought that one time with no rubber would be OK and that one time got her pregnant at 14. And when the father found out he left out of state and hasnt come back. Now shes fifteen and a single parent and yes she has surprised me and became a hell of a woman. She takes better care of and knows more about her child then most 30 yr olds. Im not saying you wont be able to do it but she even tells me she wishes there were times she could just get up and leave and go skating and do all the things she used to. But on the other hand that baby has taught her alot about life.

Answer 3

Don't rush into having sex. Do wait until you get married. When you have sex with a person you form a powerful bond that is supposed to last for a life time. If that doesn't happen in the context of marriage you are setting your self up for pain down the line. Don't play with fire!

"Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes not be burned? Can one go upon hot coals, and his feet not be burned? Proverbs 6:27-28

Answer 4

do hav sex with a partner of opposite sex
use condoms
shave d pussy,penis,both butts smoothly
hav sex in the night in a well lit or smoothly lit place
dont hav sex with empty stomach
try out a new unfamiliar location
licking scking or ******* whatever u do... it should be mutual
use lubes
do it both ways
do it atleast 4 to 5 times that day

Answer 5

Unless you're getting married, everything is a don't! Including having sex.

Answer 6

Do put it off. Don't do it now.

Serously, when you get older, you will regret it.

And if you save yourself, you will NEVER regret it.

Answer 7

Do everything enjoy have fun & make sure you do it again

Answer 8

I'd go with kja63 's advice. It's all there.

Answer 9

Go to your mom and ask this.

Answer 10

Don't procreate.