or do i cheat on her, try for size etc:
2006-08-10 01:13:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all if you are thinking about being with someone other than your girlfriend then obviously the relationship has ran its course. If you truly loved her and wanted to be with her you would not be having these thoughts. The right thing to do in this situation would be to end the relationship with your girlfriend. Cheating on her would only hurt her and ruin what relationship y'all do have. Give her the respect she deserves and talk to her about it that way both of you keep from getting hurt or losing a good friend.
2006-08-10 01:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by AVRIL D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By dumping someone is bad enough, yet you are trying to cheat on her before you dump her..What have she done to deserved this from you?Think about this....If your relationship really doesn't work out, breaking up is the only way, and not keep thinking of a way out for youself...That's very selfish to be frank...
2006-08-10 08:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that things have got so bad with your girlfriend that you are considering being unfaithful to her, then I think there is something that needs addressing. Either you talk to her and try to fix whatever it is that is wrong or you decide that you want to end the relationship.
People are not toys, and if you treat them that way then it reeks of personal weakness and insecurity. I think you need to examine the reasons why you feel that you have to be with somebody. If it is just for sex then at least be honest about this to yourself and the people whom you date.
Also remember that it's a lot easier to gain a bad reputation than it is to get rid of one. Your behaviour may lead people to look at you in a prejudiced manner and it will be nobody's fault but your own unless you change your ways
best wishes
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2006-08-10 08:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by lady_sephie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should dump your girlfriend if you don't fancy her anymore - don't cheat because your girlfriend will be very hurt if she finds out that you have been cheating.
2006-08-10 08:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok dont cheat on her... and if you want to dump her for someone else, i guess thats your decision go ahead, but wait until you go off with another girl... at least a few weeks or whatever, then it wont be so hard on your ex-girlfriend, and you wont look like a jerk
2006-08-10 08:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by musicfanatic40 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking about cheating then it would be a good thing to break things off w/ your girlfriend
2006-08-10 09:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by Cat C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you had started , and now don't dump her bet break with her in a very flat way , don't play with people's emotions , not good for your reputation .
2006-08-10 08:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in doubt about the relationship, break it off. What if she wanted to try a different size? Should she break it off with you first?
2006-08-10 08:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't everything in a relationship!! BUT...It is important...if you are interested in another girl dump your girlfriend it isn't fair to hurt her in the process.
2006-08-10 08:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by nickychute 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your gf must be the luckiest girl alive. She is going to lose you sooner rather than later by the sounds of it.
2006-08-10 08:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by choco_mint 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋